for myself, I'm straight, so that's accepted, almost assumed, implied. if you are gay, carefully evaluate every one of your co-workers, because once you tell one of them, you tell ALL of them. and some people just can't accept gays. for myself, you are what you are, it doesn't bother me, don't try to "recruit" me or embarrass me in public. I was friends with a gay guy long ago, I told him, I was straight. don't put no moves on me. sometimes in public, we worked together as retail clerks, he would call me "honey" or "sweetie", and one day he tried to kiss me in front of a mother with her 12yo son. he was not only gay, but kind of nuts.