To bi or not to bi

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Thoughts please.

I am into women and I don't find guys attractive as such but have a thing about large cocks. Would it be a good idea to satisfy this fascination and seek a big cock to play with? I'm thinking that it would be with a guy in similar position so could just help each other satisfy our curiosity. Or should I just let this curiosity pass?!
 

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Thoughts please.

I am into women and

I don't find guys attractive
but have a thing about large cocks.

Would it be a good idea to satisfy this fascination and seek a big cock to play with?

I'm thinking that it would be with a guy in similar position so could just help each other satisfy our curiosity.


Or should I just let this curiosity pass?!

I think that you should be with a man that is in the same situation as you are. Some guy that isn't into being with a man relationship-wise but someone interested in cockplay.
Maybe after a few times...it won't be much of a curiosity after all...or maybe it will develop into something...you never know. Try it and see. Who knows. Good luck.

 
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As long as you're single you should do it!
Gay sex is as natural as straight sex and lots of fun. You'll probably keep having these feelings, satisfying them will help you learn more about your self and your sexuality. If you don't like it then lesson learned, if you do then happy days, you've just opened your self up for some amazing sexual experiences.
Never feel ashamed of it. Despite what some people say, sex between two men is totally natural and health.
 

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dude, if you're a bi, just be a bi, there is nothing wrong with that, but please, if you will do with men, just admit to yourself and others you are not straight, but bisexual.
 

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As someone with a similar experience I strongly suggest you explore these feelings. I am attracted to some men and some women. I don't think terms like homosexual heterosexual or bisexual are particularly helpful to some people because these things vary broadly from individual to individual and why should everyone be boxed in to a particular grouping. Ask yourself this. If I don't try it once will I continue to wonder and in time come to regret not knowing how I truely feel? Now as someone else very wisely said it would be best to try it with someone in similar circumstances because I tried it with a guy who wanted me to move in with him after a week. Just be sure you both have the right expectations.
I'll shut up now.
 

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Thoughts please.

I am into women and I don't find guys attractive as such but have a thing about large cocks. Would it be a good idea to satisfy this fascination and seek a big cock to play with? I'm thinking that it would be with a guy in similar position so could just help each other satisfy our curiosity. Or should I just let this curiosity pass?!

I feel the same, ever since seeing my friends when we were young. If you know someone who feels the same way or you can find someone with a cock that attracts you, I'd say go for it.
 

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I agree that you should set the orientation labels aside and just go for it. If it turns out to be something you don't particularly care for at least your curiosity will be satisfied. If it turns out to be an enjoyable and rewarding experience you'll have expanded your horizons to a whole new level of sexual fulfillment.
 

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Thoughts please.

I am into women and I don't find guys attractive as such but have a thing about large cocks. Would it be a good idea to satisfy this fascination and seek a big cock to play with? I'm thinking that it would be with a guy in similar position so could just help each other satisfy our curiosity. Or should I just let this curiosity pass?!

The one between your legs ain't bad!
 

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I am bi only when my GF is in the play, otherwise I am not interested in playing with guys. Guess that she is the catalyst. When we party with bi guys, I am an oral and anal top and bottom. Guys playing together turns her on, and she gets wild, and I really enjoy that.

I started off during an MFM when she and I got 69 and a guy fucked her doggie. I used my tongue on her clit, and watched his cock slide in and out of her pussy above my nose, with his balls rubbing across my nose each time. Then, his cock slipped out and found it's way into my mouth for a few strokes. The next time we were in an MFM she asked me to help her get his cock hard for the second round, and shoved the head of it into my mouth. I got it very hard and enjoyed doing so. Since then we have had a lot of bi swing parties and they have been great. But, I still do not want to play with a guy without her there as the catalyst, or kiss a guy. Yes, I will suck his cock but do not enjoy kissing him. I let her take care of that for the two of us.
So, you may find that you do not enjoy playing with guys by themselves, but enjoy it when there is a woman in the play.
 
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I 've been 'bi' for some time now, but it was a very slow process, and one where I constantly debated each step. I started out with an attraction to transexuals. Not just any, but ones that were well hung AND very feminine. From there I discovered large cock in general was a turn on, and explored those cravings. In that time I was never attracted to men per se, but to cock.

It wasn't until a few years ago that I slowly moved beyond that. I used to get that 'icky' feeling watching two men kiss in a movie, and I never wanted to touch much more than I needed to. It was all about cock worship. I think it was when I met some men that turned into friends, and repeat adventures, that I grew. I learned to appreciate the interpersonal chemistry, and how passionate bi play can be. There was one particular guy, beautiful thick 8.5" and very passionate. I learned the joy of a kiss, and he was the first to truly top me. I've been very open minded since.

I guess the point is that each yearning could be the beginning of a journey, or basic curiousity. You never know until you try. I still love women, and consider myself 'bi-sexual and hetero romantic', but I've also opened up to sharing more than a quick blow and go.
 
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