To bulge or not to bulge?

Discussion in 'Underwear, Clothing, and Appearance Issues' started by B_bigbanana, Dec 18, 2009.

  1. B_bigbanana

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    Serious. What is the best way to hide a bulge? It may be weird to say, but I don't like my crotch being looked too much by a guy or girl. I don't have an enormous bulge, but I don't false advertising either. I say all this because I feel it has hindered my relations to people out in public and given me unwanted and awkward attention. Commando is for sure out of the question! 'Tighty-whities' help a little bit.
     
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    tighter briefs or larger size pants
     
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    Get some tighties that have a little spandex in the mix. That'll hold the monster in check.

    But seriously, dude, is a little attention such a bad thing? All those gals and dudes drooling over something they know they can have, but only if you'll let 'em? That, bud, is what I call good clean fun. Enjoy it!
     
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    What does that phrase even mean, exactly? If they are strangers, I don't have "relations to people out in public"; they're strangers, so who cares what they think as long as you're not doing something illegal or at least ridiculous? And if the "people" are friends or relatives, then your "relations" with them surely aren't "hindered" in public or private, as appropriate.
     
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    to bulge.
     
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    it can be awkward being known as "the guy with the bulge", but it's not all bad. I started seriously working out my legs about a year ago and now my thighs touch and don't leave any room for my big balls to hide... tighter underwear is helping to keep my bulge kinda mellow.
     
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    A boxer-brief type of underwear. The spandex material is able to "minimize" the bulge without too much discomfort and the extended lining allows you to place your penis and/or balls in strategic positions that reduce the bulge, but allow you to move mostly normally still.
     
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    I'm with the other guys...Just wear what's comfortable and if there's a bulge, so be it. People like seeing it ;)
     
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    I would say larger pants. A lot of people don't like baggy jeans, but if you are a 32 get a 34. Just don't go too high because a tight belt on looser pants can create an even larger looking bulge than you may have now.
     
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    If you are talking about dress trousers or chinos then wear pleated ones. If you want to wear jeans, then I don't know of a solution.
     
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    Bulge always.
     
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    This thread hasn't been touched in a while, so I'll post. lol
    I have been working a new job for almost 2 months now, and before I started work I went to buy new clothes for the job. I now have 2 pairs of chino cut corduroys. I know a lot of guys like to see guys in cords, as do I. I have discovered that when I wear the cords with boxers, it all but tells you exactly how big my dick is. It makes the bulge very obvious. It's quite entertaining when you catch people looking. lol I wear them shamelessly to work a couple times a week. Even caught my boss glancing down at my crotch. And he's straight. lol
     
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    I agree it is a bit entertaining when you catch someone gazing at your man bulge... happens all the time.... then they try to dart their eyes away quickly... lol BUSTED!
     
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    Flaunt it if u got it!!!!
     
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    I was a bit conflicted about this a few months ago, as a teacher of teens...but since then I have gotten some slightly less slim pants for work and some different underwear. Seems to have made it less noticeable. Outside of work, I'm occasionally self conscious, but the ramifications aren't quite the same...and can, in fact, be positive. :biggrin1:
     
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    I'd recommend wearing a kimono.
     

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