To Cum Or Not To Try Not To Cum From A Bj

How do you like to cum from a bj

  • Doesn't matter as long as I cum

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • I rather cum fast

    Votes: 5 5.5%
  • I rather not cum too fast if the bj is good

    Votes: 66 72.5%

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HOU_HEADHUNTER

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There is a thread somewhere on here concerning how fast cocksuckers have been able to make guys cum from a bj. It's always interesting reading other peoples experiences concerning the question however it is directed at the cocksuckers who take pride in making a guy cum in record time. Although I've had a lot of guys cum very fast I've also had guys who will stop me and wait a few seconds before they let me proceed. I am always concerned when they do this as I misread the pause in my performance as them not enjoying the bj but they see my concern and tell me that they don't want to cum fast because the bj is so good. I'm interested in knowing how guys who receive a bj feel about cumming fast and whether they prefer a prolonged bj if the bj is really good or if it doesn't really matter as long as they cum.
 
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Just a little warning: if you make it last, you may be discouraging your partner to do it again.

I like to suck cock, but if it lasts too long, it'll become painful. I like playing to make it last for the guy, but it should be in my control, not his, because I know how long I can keep it going before it becomes painful for me.

I'll only do it while it's a pleasure for both of us.
 

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It depends on the situation. Sometimes you're being blown to get you really hard for a fuck. But sometimes, I want an extended blow job that lasts and lasts until I cum in the mouth of my gf or a buddy. My gf is an awesome cocksucker. She knows how to keep going and keep me from cumming, and when we're both ready, she slides a couple of lubed fingers up my ass and I shoot a huge load into her mouth
 
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Well as I love to edge When I jerk off I prefer a bj nice and slow and love to make it last as long as he is willing to suck my cock. I have trained myself to usually cum when I want to cum. Can't stand a quick bj as it's not to intense for me.
 
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It's always been difficult for me to get off from a blowjob. There have only been a few people who could consistently get me off from one. There is a point where the stimulation crosses a line and I go numb. Once that happens I'm not going to get off no matter how hard you try. The lucky few were able to figure that out and work to get me off before that happens.
 

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I'm in my mid-60s and have probably gotten off from a blowjob fewer than 5 times - and I get plenty of cock sucking from my wife. I absolutely love the feeling of her lips and tongue on my cock and balls. She's very attentive and not really in a hurry. The closest I get to cumming is if I kneel beside her and gently hold her head and mouth-fuck her slightly - not enough to deepthroat or gag her - just in-and-out and inch or two. But still, I rarely reach the PONR.
 
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Always been surprised some guys can’t get off from a blowjob. Feels too good for me. I know a lot use it as foreplay before fucking, but cumming in a mouth as they keep sucking and massage your balls is just too good not to feel once in a while haha.
 

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I've always been able to get off rather well and timely when given a bj even when she was one who wasn't particularly good at it. But lately with a new lady friend I've been seeing who I've fucked several times and who's very sexual, I can't seem to get off from her bj. And it's not because she's not doing it well, it's just some mental block I seem to have when it comes to her and blowing my load down her throat, which she's constantly wanting yet in our new relationship.
 
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Tbh, I've never cum purely from a blowjob alone. Somehow, it just doesn't do it for me. It's certainly pleasurable and nice to do - especially when I can dominate my partner. But something about it just lacks that little bit extra to drive me over the edge. Only advantage is that I can enjoy it as long as I can :p
 

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Tbh, I've never cum purely from a blowjob alone. Somehow, it just doesn't do it for me. It's certainly pleasurable and nice to do - especially when I can dominate my partner. But something about it just lacks that little bit extra to drive me over the edge. Only advantage is that I can enjoy it as long as I can :p

I have cum from a BJ alone, but most times it takes some manual stimulation on my part. I think the real issue is whether the giver will let me cum in his mouth.

Personally, I love feeling the head throb and hot load shot in my mouth.
 

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I choose the third answer since my wife is so good at BJs it doesn't take me long to pop and I do sometimes wish I could enjoy it longer and be able to spend more time concentrating on the sensations as well as the fantasies in my head.

Compared to vaginal sex, I've always found it easier and faster to climax with oral and I've had to stop a number of women I've played with and switch to penetration when I found I was quickly reaching the plateau and I knew if I came in their mouth I might never get another chance to do it in their pussy instead.

So maybe it's just the women I've been with are too good at making me reach climax or just the way my body responds, but I would at times by happy for a proven technique either they or I could use to prolong the experience.
 

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When my wife was transitioning off of the pill we chose to use a lot of foreplay rather then me putting on a condom. It always ended with her going down on me. Well now we both love the fact that I use my fingers and her vibrator on her so that she can literally cum as many times as she wants, the whole time it's making me hornier as hell that she is. Then she continues to use the vibrator and insert her dildo into herself while she blows me. At this point it doesn't matter at all whether it takes her a long time to make me cum or not, because she has been satisfied many times over. I can count on one hand the number of times I didn't have an amazing climax, because even after I cum in her mouth she stays on my bad boy sucking away.
 
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I get a blow job almost every time I ask for one it’s typically a form of for-play. It typically takes me much longer to cum from oral than from vaginal or anal sex. There are times that she has made me cum very fast and it has surprised both of us a few times. She typically will let me know if I can finish in her mouth or not.
 
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Having your cock mouth edged for hours, back off just at the point of orgasm, then continue sucking, and repeat, for me is the most intense orgasm I can ever achieve. Passing out / tears kind of shit haha
 
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Getting sucked off in the finale is always good. But as a cumshooter I prefer to see my jizz fly in spurts across body face etc. So if I’m about to nut getting bj I pull out and push her head back for a facial.
 
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I can last ages from a blow job and often not cum at all, even though I really enjoy receiving them and love a good 69 session... in fact only two women have got me too cum from oral alone. However, on entering a woman’s pussy I sometimes struggle not to cum almost immediately!
 

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It all depends on the situation for me. If I am getting my cock sucked and it is good I will back off and try and make it last as long as possible. If it's a quick hookup and I am sucking I leave it up to the guy if he's laid back chilling and enjoying I will continue to go slow and wait for him to make a move that he wants to cum.
 

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Oddly, I've always had difficulty cumming from JUST a blowjob -- regardless of how well it's done. If the girl has the stamina and can handle cumming multiple times and still be able to work on my cock, 69ing can cause me to cum. But it's not a quick process by any means.
 
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