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rainfletcher: I can't really add anything to what Tender and LongTimeLurker and others have said with regards to your specific situation.
However, in my personal experience, I've only tried this once, and it was an epic, legendary disaster. I think it might have had a better shot had we not worked together. But the fact that we WERE working together absolutely doomed it.
I know others have made this work, but I think the pressures are unique. I know for many people, the time at work is sort of like 'down time,' and it's and important time apart. I know also that trying to mix the stresses of work and the stresses of maintaining a relationship can be too much.
Just my experience....
However, in my personal experience, I've only tried this once, and it was an epic, legendary disaster. I think it might have had a better shot had we not worked together. But the fact that we WERE working together absolutely doomed it.
I know others have made this work, but I think the pressures are unique. I know for many people, the time at work is sort of like 'down time,' and it's and important time apart. I know also that trying to mix the stresses of work and the stresses of maintaining a relationship can be too much.
Just my experience....