To Guys Who Hate Size Queens

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Why? They will literally do anything for you if you give them your big cock in return. Not only that you more likely to get sexy everyday than us smaller guys
 

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Why, you ask. I'll tell you why. For one thing, no matter the subject, there's a porn of it. And for another, no matter the subject, there's someone to hate it!
 
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Why, you ask. I'll tell you why. For one thing, no matter the subject, there's a porn of it. And for another, no matter the subject, there's someone to hate it!
But the hate?
 

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here's the cold hard truth: it's very short-lived... yea, it's great at first but eventually when reality kicks in and you realize that you're nothing more than a big dick to this person or these people, you'll begin to realize that having a big dick doesn't add value to what matters in life.

look at this way, it's nice having a lambo for the first 6 months or maybe even the first year but eventually it will become nothing more that 4 wheels and a steering wheel with a lot of unwanted liability and risk that do not match the rewards.

better yet, swap out big dick with millions of dollars... imagine having people around you only because you have money... if this analogy doesn't hit home with you then there's nothing more i can say to make you believe what i just said. good luck out there!
 

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here's the cold hard truth: it's very short-lived... yea, it's great at first but eventually when reality kicks in and you realize that you're nothing more than a big dick to this person or these people, you'll begin to realize that having a big dick doesn't add value to what matters in life.

look at this way, it's nice having a lambo for the first 6 months or maybe even the first year but eventually it will become nothing more that 4 wheels and a steering wheel with a lot of unwanted liability and risk that do not match the rewards.

better yet, swap out big dick with millions of dollars... imagine having people around you only because you have money... if this analogy doesn't hit home with you then there's nothing more i can say to make you believe what i just said. good luck out there!

It's not necessarily short-lived. By individual partners it can be but women have been after me for it since (in compliance with site TOS) the day I turned 18. I've taken advantage of many (not all) the opportunities which have come my way--and with men too though I was mostly oblivious to those until I started topping guys at 22.

It doesn't bother me when a hookup or lover is only interested in me for my size. If we both want it we're consenting adults and sex is fun. I've had my share of one-night stands but for many size lovers once or twice isn't enough.

What's the old saying? "The second happiest day of my life is the day I bought my car/boat/airplane. The happiest day is the day I sold it!" Nothing wrong with owning a lambo and driving the hell out if it for six months (wind in your hair!) then selling it--except the depreciation taken if purchased new. I'd rent one for a week instead. :cool:

As for wealth I was engaged to three women in my 20s & 30s and all three balked at signing a prenup to protect wealth I generated before meeting them. Other issues contributed to our breakups but it was obvious they wanted me primarily for money so you're spot on there.

It depends on adding value to what matters in life? I can't say my size has added or subtracted value to what really matters to me. My core--my center--is not dependent on sex or even being loved by others.

Size queens are individual humans. Most work out great, some meh, some--like drama queens--don't.
 

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It doesn't bother me when a hookup or lover is only interested in me for my size.

as long as this hold true, you'll be fine. if this ever decides to leave you though, reality will hit hard. to each their own and i'm a firm believer of "use it while you got it".
 
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In my experience, most of the people who have a problem with size queens are guys on the smaller end of the scale, due to insecurity. There's nothing wrong with having size preferences and even requirements, as long as you're not an asshole about it.
 

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I've lost count of how many times I've listened to guys go on and on about how they love women with big breasts (or some other physical trait), even in the presence of those of us without them *cough*.. but god forbid a woman mentions a large penis and they get all butthurt and brand her a heartless size queen :laughing:

They're all physical traits that people have little or no control over.
I guess the irony is lost on them ;)
 

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One word : envy. Most women would rather be with a man with a big cock who has a minimum wage job than with a man who requires using the size increase feature on the computer to detect if he's cut or not who is a business executive. Fact.

Understand that most size queens are OTHER MEN. It pisses me off (understandably, as I'm super small down there) when I see a gorgeous thick beauty on here and some asshole posts "tiny dick" or something rude similar to that. Chances are they're merely attention starved, and are seeking a typing battle with whoever takes the bait.

I don't hate size queens, as, duh, that's what we're doing here on this forum, is to see biggies. You don't have to be labeled a size queen to have appreciation for those who are blessed downstairs, but people should knock off being such haters to the rest of us.
 
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What reality is that?

when it does bother you that they're just with you for your penis and nothing else. as you said, it doesn't bother you right now but it may one day. life is long and life changes each day for all of us.

good luck though. i hope you maintain this look on life til the day you pass on so that you may never have to experience what it feels like.
 

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when it does bother you that they're just with you for your penis and nothing else. as you said, it doesn't bother you right now but it may one day. life is long and life changes each day for all of us.

good luck though. i hope you maintain this look on life til the day you pass on so that you may never have to experience what it feels like.

How bad was the experience for you?
 

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How bad was the experience for you?

I've had the honor of being asian and being a big dick at the same time so I got to be a living fetish. I'm no 9/10 chad but girls are looking my way as I pass by and continue to look my way when they knew I was packing. As I said, it was great at first because women would literally throw themselves at me and when word got around, I somehow ended up on everyone's target list. The sex was awesome, easy, free, and required no work on my part. I would go no less than a week without getting hit up for some free pussy. Some of you guys here may think that's awesome but the reality is that we humans deep down prefer some level of connection at some point in our lives to make anything that we do have purpose. If you don't ever encounter that then consider yourself lucky cause you can cruise through life without ever feeling like "something is missing" in your life.

By all means, it was not a "bad experience" at all. It was just an awakening or an epiphany if you want to call it that. I just realized that the majority of women (and sometimes men) in my life were only there because I was a big dick or I was an asian with a big dick. I lost a few guy friends who only hung out around me because I attracted women and they were just there to pick off the side pieces. Either way, you lose that taste in your mouth really quick and you start to question all your friendships.

I did get over it. Met my wife, fucked her friends (because I'm the asian guy with the big dick), got over that, and now I'm still happily married to her and we just chill. Everytime I have sex with my wife, I get to feel something that I would never feel with a new stranger-pussy from tinder. Don't get me wrong, the sex is great and no denying it, but when post-nut clarity kicks in and reality shortly follows, you'll understand.

If this is not you then more power to you and I don't wish this on anyone. If you got a big dick and it's working for you then milk it for what it's worth because a big dick will only get you so far.
 
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but the reality is that we humans deep down prefer some level of connection at some point in our lives to make anything that we do have purpose.

We humans? Is it wise to speak for us all? You are still denigrating the sexuality of others because of your own need for a deep connection and purpose for sex.

because a big dick will only get you so far.

Again the negative judgement.

but when post-nut clarity kicks in and reality shortly follows, you'll understand.

Pre-nut, post-nut and no-nut let me provide clarity: deep down I am fully immersed in what Walt Whitman called the measureless ocean of love within and like him I freely pour it forth.

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We humans? Is it wise to speak for us all? You are still denigrating the sexuality of others because of your own need for a deep connection and purpose for sex.

i was referring to life overall and life as a purpose, not just sex. there's more to life than sex. if sex is your life then cool, roll with it. are you saying human beings don't seek out connection with other human beings, or other groups of human beings?

Again the negative judgement.

no judgement here at all. i said "a big dick will only get you so far in life" and i meant it. please share with us how far your big dick has gotten you and any life advantages in the real world it has provided you? did it land you a job? maybe a raise and promotion? did everyone get out of your way at the tech store when the new phone came out? perhaps let you cut in front of the line while checking out your groceries?

Pre-nut, post-nut and no-nut let me provide clarity: deep down I am fully immersed in what Walt Whitman called the measureless ocean of love within and like him I freely pour it forth.
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haha, thanks for the good laugh. i like how your mind works. let us keep debating. i think this will be fun for us both.
 
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Who doesn’t have physical preferences? If you like your sexual partners to be thin or thick, blonde or brunette, long hair or short, big boobs or flat chested, etc. you have a preference so why should someone who likes big cocks be any different? If it’s something they like and they are willing to express that fact then I appreciate it. If they are shaming someone who doesn’t meet their standards then that is lame as I don’t think anyone should be made to feel badly for their appearance. Especially when it’s out of their control.
 
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Hmm. For the small minority that truly hate size queens: envy, typically due to insecurity. Noting, arguably, that the majority of size queens are men, others who do not meet their requirement tend to despise them more oft than not for their approach and behavior. This statement does not disregard any perceived insult which is often an aspect of insecurity - something everybody has to some degree. Also, since easily nearly everyone on this site is either a man or a woman that has been/wants to be with a man sexually, it should be no surprise that in regards to sex, men - especially gay men, by and large can be and oft are dismissive to those not meeting their standards, whatever they may be.

Now, and not speaking on behalf of whole groups of people, my experiences and discussions with others (to add to asianmarried's statement) have lead me to see a major correlation between the number of minority groups counted toward an individual and his desire not to be seen simply as a big dick for the consumption of others. If you are a white man with a big dick who loves sex - these three groupings represent highly valued ideals in our society held by majorities (men + people from other groups), you feel and are hailed as a supreme specimen by the majority. Someone like myself - a black gay "demiexual" man with a bigger than average dick, I am only highly valued for my dick size - groupings based on their own merits. The other groups devalue my value by the standards of the majority, and only two would be considered highly valued by a significant minority and only if I fit a prescribed stereotype.

In my case, being approached by size queens - often white men who only want me for BBC, which represent a majority of those who approach me, only reinforces the ideal that I am only valuable to them because of my assumed and actual dick size as far as it coincides with their fantasy. Please do not conflate this to mean I do not like being complimented for my dick size - I mean, who doesn't like compliments, but that is vastly different than being approached ONLY because of your size + race due to a stereotype. Nonetheless, I won't even discuss the behaviors of a number of those individuals when I turned them down, nor the fact that their wants and mine are not aligned or that many of them disregarded my statements in favor of their desire. If I tell you I do not like the term BBC, yet it is what you consistently use, I am going to tell you to order a big black dildo because that's obviously what you want and I am sure you'll get more pleasure out of it than you will me.

Also, please do not mistake this for me shaming size queens. They like what they like. My problem comes in when your like of something outweighs the wishes of the person you are trying to get with because of that like. I do not hate size queens nearly as much as despise many of the behaviors and attitudes exhibited by many of them directed at me. Unlike many men I've come across, I like being desired for more than just my dick or (my lackluster) muscles, which is why I derive much of my "sexual value" from the fact that, and though a minority compared to those seeking BBC from me, many straight and bi men approach me for their first gay sexual experiences.

Contrary to popular belief, brobro06, many of those size queens would not give me what I wanted - emotional connection, friendship, etc., so no, they may do anything sexual for you, but they wont do literally any and every thing for you.
 
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One word : envy. Most women would rather be with a man with a big cock who has a minimum wage job than with a man who requires using the size increase feature on the computer to detect if he's cut or not who is a business executive. Fact.

I guess it's a fact because the word fact was written after it. I mean that's pretty darn conclusive.

Let me just say a few things on that:

  • It's impossible to know what "most women would rather." I take it you didn't do a series of random phone calls and poll even a few women to get their thoughts on the topic so let's not go crazy and start talking about the lot of them all at once.
  • I don't like to argue from personal incredulity usually but I can at least say in my own experience that men seem infinitely more obsessed over dick size than women. Women for the most part just seem to want an end to dick they didn't ask for being shoved into their DMs and into their faces.
  • Sex has nothing to do with money. Sex appeal has nothing to do with money.
That having been said I don't "hate" size queens. I am more bothered by people who try to speak for groups they aren't part of.
 
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