To Married Men: Do You Openly Talk With The Wife About You Masturbating?

[MilfBanger78]

My gf knows I do webcams and Onlyfans as side jobs so yeah..that kinda cums with the territory lol. She does cams also time to time, so we're pretty open.

 

[Assman1]

Talk? Hell, she watches and helps!

 

[diver6]

My wife knows and has seen a vid of me doing it but that's about it. She knows I do it every week between fucking to keep myself on track! lol The only time she watched me was when I had to give a sample after getting a vasectomy.

 

[ronin001]

The man had a PHD about married life

 

[elklindoxxx]

I've masturbated in front of my partner before, it's not uncommon. My partner does it too before we have sex...that zoned out look on her face makes me kind of horny....lol.

 

[flatiron]

This might be a weird take, but my wife comes home from work most evenings to find a buttplug on the bed. I work from home.

 

[deleted817718]

We both masturbate, we don’t have sex very often, and we have agreed early on in our relationship that masturbation is something we want to keep as a private activity. We don’t masturbate at all together, even when having sex, as it is sort of an intrusion on our private pleasure.
Maybe a little bit odd, but we like to have something we don’t share together

 

[leisureblade]

Just wondering:
Do you openly talk with your wife about your self masturbation or do you keep it as a secret?
Do you masturbate in private and she knows about it or you do it without her knowing?
Do you masturbate in front of her while shes doing other activities such as while watching a movie or anything else not sex related?

We have admited to mastubate but never shared details regarding when, where and how often, for example we were talking about the fact that she has lost sex drive recently and she said and i quote "is just not like i dont wanna have sex, i havent even masturbated"

Yes, we do openly talk about it. We do it privatly but we know when we're doing it and where. Sometimes we get into each others wanking and, depending on the occasion, we just pass by, watch or lend a hand

 

[VladtheImpaler]

For most of our marriage I did it privately. A couple of years ago I started having problems cumming. One night having intercourse I just could not reach orgasm, we were in our hot tub and I just pulled out and started jerking till I came. Since then I have finish with my hand several times, she watches and as I begin to cum puts it in her mouth

 

[deleted5700751]

we know what eachother does. we only do it when i'm away from work but we end eachother a short summary after to involve eachother, of what we did, if/what toy we used, how good it felt etc. for a lot of years neither of us bothered and saved it but its better for both of us this way.

 

[Obelisk8]

No, I don't talk about it. She tells me more about her masturbating, though. She has a collection of toys that perhaps lend themselves to more conversation.

 

[justahornyguy174]

I'm not married but if I do ever get married I hope we are both open enough to talk about it and even do it with each other. I have a few fuck buddies, one of them I've wanked in front of her a couple of times, in the morning she's got up and I've still be in bed, she was getting ready for work and I just had the urge. I'd already told her I wank over her quite a lot so just started, looking at her getting dressed is better than any porn I've seen!

 

[deleted5199391]

Yup, and it's part of our sex life

 

[deleted814719]

Wife and I were traveling a few weeks ago and spent the night in a hotel. I woke up about 3:00am, had to pee. When I came back to bed, she woke and went to pee. She came back and I was kind of ramped up, I told her I was going to jack off in order to go back to sleep. She said, "fine, I'll help" and rolled over and started fondling my balls. I stroked while she continued to fondle. I came within a few minutes. She used a towel to clean me up and we both went back to sleep.

 

[deleted13728981]

No, we do not talk about it. She knows I do it but not when or how often or anything like that. Been married 10 years and when the subject first came up she seemed to not be happy I was masturbating. We average sex about once a week and it's great but she doesn't masturbate by herself that I know of.

 

[bigbill810]

Yep. Sometimes she will watch me, or just leave and let me have my time. Sometimes she will take over.

As for her; I'll ask her if she wants me to stay and help in whatever way she wants. If not, I leave her to it.

 

[ABurnabyDude]

We talk about it often, share content of what we watch when we do it. Sometimes one of us asks for help and we give each other a hand or a tongue if we aren’t in the mood for flat out sex.

it’s pretty awesome but I am super lucky I have a wife who is super open minded sexually

 

[WilliamG]

No, we do not talk about it. She knows I do it but not when or how often or anything like that. Been married 10 years and when the subject first came up she seemed to not be happy I was masturbating. We average sex about once a week and it's great but she doesn't masturbate by herself that I know of.

I think this would be a majority answer in the real world. But I've been married for 30+ years so who knows..?

 

[Sid76]

Nope haven’t disguised this with my wife…pretty sure she knows I do..who doesn’t. Lol

 

[rbi99]

While my wife and I don't talk about it, many, many times while she is going down on me I finish myself off by masturbating into her mouth. If my wife used her vibrator on herself when I'm not around, I wouldn't mind at all, but I sincerely doubt that she ever has.