To quote swoon. . .

[At.your.cervix]

"Is porn bad and shameful? It does seem to be the case for women unfortunately. I wonder if his life would have been different if we didn't live in a misogynist world, and porn wasn't like a constant stream of misogynist vomit being constantly rehashed and regurgitated." --from thread https://www.lpsg.com/threads/my-mom-is-a-pornstar-interesting-and-legit-read.449740/.

Most all of the porn which I've ever seen seems misogynistic, as Swoon contends, in that it seems that all which is important is that the male is being pleasured, right from the opening dutiful blow job to the closing cum-shot all over the woman's smiling face. And the women in such act as instruments for the male's pleasure. Unfortunately for me, what turns me on are films which at least provide a believable illusion that the sex is being equally participated in and enjoyed by the woman in front of the camera--that's way more reflective of my own experiences between the sheets than what the San Fernando Valley seems to churn out.

I'm curious about a woman's perspective on pornography these days. Is it all just a "conscious stream of misogynistic vomit being constantly (watch that redundancy, Swoon. ed.) rehashed and regurgitated?" Is there any type/approach of/to sexual content which you find not repugnant, but arousing? What, if anything, could be done to pornography to become more attuned to your libidinal sensibilities when you feel the itch?

Thanks,
AYC

 

[EllieP]

There's so much I could say as to why I don't enjoy porn films. Suffice it to say that I'm quite aware it exists to entice the male prurient interests. I know there is a genre called porn for women, but it seems to have the same effect on me. Same for gay porn. I've seen it all, and I'm more excited about a well written love scene in a major motion picture than anything porn can offer.

"Try hidden cam porn," I was told because it's more real. Nope. Didn't work. I was sickened by the thought that they were being filmed without their knowledge, or at least that's how it was portrayed.

It's very difficult for anything on film to compete with my imagination - or real life for that matter! I never share fantasies so don't even ask.

Porn is just boring.

 

[950483]

Perhaps, if I watched all the porn I would find something I liked, but it's just not worth it because I'd have to watch all of the other stuff as well. I have a short video of my (on/off/on again) partner doing the ice bucket challenge, and it's porn to me; though it wouldn't be if I saw the same video featuring a more attractive stranger. Having said that, I don't think all of my sexual feelings are intertwined with emotional attachments, and I'm sure there is porn I would like, I just can't be bothered to wade through a cesspool to find it.

Personally, (only speaking for myself), one of the main differences between having relationships with women and with men, is that for men sex is sex, and everything else isn't. For women everything is sex all the time. Men think foreplay is about the mechanics of the bit just prior to inserting their penis; for women all gestures of care and consideration (including household chores) are foreplay too. What I have just written sounds as sexist as hell, but I am speaking about my own experience of relationships, so my perceptions are possibly skewed. "Subtlety" is the key difference in my opinion. The sexiest things aren't necessarily overtly sexual.

This is the most pornographic thing I've come across in the last few days, not particularly subtle, maybe just because I really like seaweed:

http://travels.toa.st/2016/07/15/bathing-in-seaweed-2/

 

[At.your.cervix]

I'm sure there is porn I would like, I just can't be bothered to wade through a cesspool to find it.

You always make me laugh. I'll share one of the most erotic scenes in films for me; it's from The Girl on the Bridge (La Fille sur le Pont). I'm not sure if it comes across the same way if you haven't seen the whole film to that point, but anyhow perhaps you'll find it nearly as appealing as seaweed:

 

[HiddenLacey]

I like porn... some porn. I'm fairly sick of screaming fakery, meaning loud over the top PRETEND female orgasms. Makes me sick. Seriously, if dudes learn from porn and expect all women to act like main stream porn actresses I feel sorry for the women of the future. Bless them, hail Mary, etc. etc.

Ladies of the future I implore you, buy a vibrator, a nice one. Prepare to use it because many of us are not going to blow someone for 10 minutes, get pounded in 4-5 positions for 10 more, and enjoy baby batter in our eyes... all while having screaming fake orgasms to please the dudes. I'm definitely not.

Porn can be great when

hot guy... check
pretty chick... check
no over the top make up or fuck me shoes... check check
realistic scene, no hot Mom scores with unwashed hippie trucker dude outside of Mall... CHECK
Dude is not cleaning a pool, building a house, spanking his secretary, riding around in a cab... just skip all the BS... CHECK
wow ... the guy actually touches the woman... check check checkkkkkkkkk
holy $$$$$$$$ he went down on her and it looks niceeeeeeeee... explosion of checks
what I feel is a REAL female orgasm...... CHECKKKKKKKKK, hot damn, goes in the porn stash

The End.

I'm always searching for the next great porn, they're few and far between. There is way to much acting for my viewing pleasure. If I think for a second the woman really isn't into the guy... NEXT. Take for instance the thread on this site, something about real female orgasms from hung dudes... ahhhhhhhhhhhahahaha. Guys... *shakes head*... nevermind....