to some it's big, to some it's average - 7 inch club!

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you sound like me boxingman.

i have almost the exact story,
porn is definately good at marketing lies. ;)
 

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you sound like me boxingman.

i have almost the exact story,
porn is definately good at marketing lies. ;)

I think there are a lot of stories similar to yours and mine out there, porn has really distorted the general masses views on what really is realistic penis sizes and this has given a complex to many men like us who really shouldn`t have had one to start.

Ever since I found out my endowment is above average I have almost come to hate porn for making me feel inadequate all these years, I have only watched porn a few times in the past year since finding this site whereas beforehand it was almost a daily thing even though I was with my gf.

It didn`t affect our sex life, I just felt the need to bust a nut to some porn though a few times a week and now I don`t even think of it anymore. To think that for all my teen years I had this chip on my shoulder and rather malevolent attitude because of my insecuritys regarding my size was all for nothing.

It pisses me off but you can`t go back in time to change the past, so I am trying to come to terms with it and move on, but it ain`t easy let me tell you, lots of regrets and passed on opportunitys which will live with me for a long time.

Anyway, rant over.
 

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So I'm 7x6, and I've had sex with women who wanted to have sex with me based on the outline of my cock in my pants.

I've been with other women who said they didn't care about size and didn't peg me as being particularly hung, but some of whom were very complimentary about how my stiff penis felt moving inside them.

I've been with guys, too, and all of them have commented on my size. Those of us who are a full 7in, and thick, too, are few and far between. I would say, too, that guys who enjoy getting fucked enjoy getting fucked aggressively by a thick, long cock.
 

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1) Boxingman, good share. I love that story. I felt the same way. I remember a sibling saying that he had 8 inches; I always felt so inadequate. I had no idea what a bone-press was, and I thought he meant that he had 8 hanging. Now, after reading this site and getting an idea of what is going on around me (and having done a bone-push that is just short of 8"), I realize how silly I was. In fact, I was almost unmovable in my belief that I was at or below average. After dating the same girl for a while I began to believe her when she said I was too deep; or that I'd hit her cervix and we had to stop for a second.


2) The flip side of this topic is that for the guys that are small, or below average, I hope they find solace in that many women didn't care except when I hit their cervix; otherwise I could have been 4" and it would have made no difference. They didn't get all juice staring at my bulge, and they have never said how excited they got waiting for it because it was big; ever. If anything this post proves that they generally didn't care.
 

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So I'm a horse's ass because I called you out on your bullshit? :rolleyes:

You quoted my post originally and I responded, but now for some reason "no one cares what think..." ? - The only 'no one' in this scenario is your bitchmade, lying ass.

No, I didn't miss the part about "you measured him yourself" ... that was the part that made it obvious that you were lying!

You sound just like every other bimbo size queen chick or stuck in fantasy land gay guy saying, "Well I've had 5+ guys that were 12 inches or bigger, you jerk!?!" (there's been plenty of those morons here, a lot longer than Jul 2008 when you joined... but I guess we can add you to the list now)

You and every other asinine person who comes out of the woodwork when people bring up the point how nobody is actually bigger than 9.5" , to claim that you've seen bigger personally - not even the porn star legends, such as: Mandingo, White Pony, John Holmes, etc. are that big, we do not believe you!

By even mentioning what you did, it is apparent that as a person:

- You have no credibility

- You are a liar

- If you did measure this person yourself and came up with that number then you measured incorrectly

- You do not have a realistic view of penis size in the world

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Again, I'm not an ass just because I pointed out that you were lying/exaggerating (you're the one posting the big 'shut up bitch' sign). Do you really think those dudesnudes pics do anything to make us believe that he is as big as you claim?

Yeah, and I'm sure everyone cares what the guy claiming he's measured an 11.5" is saying VS. me who speaks the truth and is down to earth with my posts.

Wake up and smell the coffee... no one cares what YOU think, buddy. We all know you're the one making the outlandish claim.

100s of years of porn never found one and you didn't either. Go back to your cave, troll. I'm dead right and you're dead wrong... hope you're having a 'FABULOUS' day. :cool:


Wow! You are one disturbed individual.
 

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Wow! You are one disturbed individual.

Yep, I'm so disturbed with all these 12 inch dicks running around... OMG, DUCK, RUN and HIDE! :eek::tongue:

Dude honestly, I reread my post and I may have been a little harsh with the ownage - so I apologize for that part... only :wink:
 
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There's been a few '7 inch' club threads lately. Interestingly, it seems to be the 'cutoff' when going from average to big.

Based off my personal experience, it's big. Out of the 9 women I've slept with, I'd say about 7 of them commented on it, to varying degrees. A couple said it was big while sucking it, some have the 'you feel sooooooo big!' line when I penetrated them, one or two didn't really verbalize anything, but they push against my thigh to 'slow' me down because I was penetrating too deep, often with a 'you're hitting my cervix' line. One gf I recall always saying 'god I feel like you're up in my stomach'. That was a real ego boost lol.

I think we look at our dicks and they always look smaller to us from our perspective. Notice how when some guys here take upclose pics from the underside perspective and gives it that 'BIG' look, that's what your partner sees too. For women who don't comment, it's either they just aren't that verbal, or they may have seen a couple bigger, so yours doesn't stand out if they happens. But if a woman has been with someone bigger, that doesn't automatically equal that you= small.

Bottomline is, 7-8 inches is probably satisfactory to the largest amount of women. You'll likely be too big for some, big for others, just right for some, and even satisfactory if not 'entirely' ideal to a size queen, especially if you have good girth.
 

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I am korean and used to work in a steam bath. Most cock I seen is in the 5-5.5 inch size. Guys 6 inch size are average and anything over is BIG. My husband is at the 6" size and when we swap or play I like something at least 7".
 
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Men tend to consider penis size on length whereas women generally consider girth, although it seems that proportion also fits into what's nice and what's not so good. Most women will get more excited with 7" long and 6" girth than the same length with 5" or even 5.5" girth. Of course, the extra 1" in girth makes for a considerable volume increase.

Most women who have commented on my size have been appreciative of my lack of extreme length, which they didn't like, and appreciative of my thickness, which they liked very much. My actual size is almost exactly 7" long, and my girth is almost exactly 6" in the middle of my shaft.
 
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I have 7.5 length and just over 5 girth,and I've been considered big by most of the women I've been with. Girth is nice for that full feeling, but some women need the dick to reach a certain depth for orgasm as well. For example my current gf gets off on depth, the deeper in her I go the bigger her smile gets, till I'm all the way in. Feels like heaven from my side of things : )
 

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My first time. I knew nothing about sex. Unless you count what I had seen in porn. I fucked her as hard and fast as I could. Just like in the porn! I could have realy hurt her. Luckaly she was patient and supportive. LOL Damn, I was dumb back then.:redface:
 

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I am in exactly the same boat as you. I am just a touch bigger but have had similar reactions.

My own theory on this is that unlike us guys most women do not go around measuring cocks and absent a tape measure are hopeless at estimating how big something is in inches. They probably dont spend hours on the net working out what percentile a 7incher is in.

"Inches" as a unit of measurement doent mean anything to most women - their only frame of reference is their past experience.

This means that where - as happened to me a girl had a very large previous partner - thats a reference point.

Unless a guy is close to or actually is the biggest in her experience its no surprise that she doesn't pause mid action to recognise the fact that he is statistically above average! In fact if a girl only ever had a 9inch partner a perfectly decent 7inches would be small in her experience.

Obviously the flip side is that relative to a 5incher we are big.

We're stuck in the middle and our fate depends upon her past - sorry thats a bit dramatic.

I suppose we want size to matter - we want to feel better than most but that means accepting that some others (a minority thankfully) will feel better than us.
 

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I think of 7" as about the same as a guy who is 6'2" tall. He's tall, for sure, but not super tall. He's not 'huge'.. he's not 6'4 or 6'6. But he would be considered tall even though there are other dudes taller.
 

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I think of 7" as about the same as a guy who is 6'2" tall. He's tall, for sure, but not super tall. He's not 'huge'.. he's not 6'4 or 6'6. But he would be considered tall even though there are other dudes taller.

Here's a little bit of research I did a while back.

Comparing

http://www.solvedating.com/american-singles-mheight.gif and
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/f/f8/Penis_percentile.svg

(Both pretty debatable surveys, mind you, especially the penis one, which is claimed to be overestimated)

7" is approximately around the 95th percentile. Which means, you find a 7" or bigger 1 in 20. Mind you, this is the Lifestyles study, which is often said to have been on the higher side. There are 4 major clinically measured studies - 3 in the USA. They have averages of 5.08", 5.4" and 5.9" respectively. We are going by the Lifestyles one, which is by far the highest average.

Corresponding to height chart, looking at the 5% percentile, we get 74 inches. So, yeah, you are absolutely, right, 6'2" it is.

However, we must factor in that the Lifestyles study had a higher average than other studies. So, even by this worst case scenario, 7+" is still pretty rare - 1 in 20, about the same as a guy 6'2" tall. In reality, I would expect 7+" to be even rarer.
 

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interestingly, my dad is 6'2.. though I'm much shorter.

Wouldn't it be weird if your dick size were related to how tall your dad was? :D

I doubt it, but I guess we'd need to do a study to make sure.