Ive been checking out random videos ppl are posting and have noticed some guys stop stroking right before they cum. I myself do the opposite, and go to town, and have incredible orgasms. I feel like if I stopped before the climax it would lose the intensity. Do most ppl stop or not?
Instinctually, I find it impossible to stop jerking right at that moment, as the beating cadence speeds up, just after the "stagger" leading up to it.
For the majority of guys, I think their instinctive reaction at orgasm is to tense their body, push deep, and hold relatively still (perhaps quivering or shuddering just a little) while the sperm is pumped out. I tend to lose control, jerking and spasming and thrusting irregularly during my ejaculation. I've been told I "cum like a girl".
The best thing to do is relax. You are right. You do that and you can even squirt like a girl. Leave the involuntary do it's job.
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If jerking I don't stop... I focus a couple of fingers right on my frenulum and rapidly stimulate it as I cum. My hips usually thrust into it as though I am driving my cock deep.
Stopping as I cum makes for a less intense orgasm.
Stopping as I cum makes for a less intense orgasm.
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keep on stroking, need to get the highest hi as I shoot and that's what my hands are doing, shooting your wad hands free and its doesn't have that orgasmic rush, just sort of dribbles out.
Nah I keep rubbing and continue the orgasm. I realize now I have quite the lengthy orgasms looking back at my videos!
To be honest, I couldn't do only one. Each method produces so many different sensations and results it would be, in my opinion, a mistake to limit yourself to "trusted methods" when masturbating. You may descover something about your body that makes you feel like you have discovered it all over again!
I have tried to stop before going "over the edge" and when I'm not stroking then I feel like a wasted the orgasm (it's not nearly as intense for me as when I stroke faster).
I get to that point of no return and stop and let nature take over, once I'm at that point there's no stopping my huge load rushing up and pumping out in several thick heavy ropes. I'm usually too busy with the intensity of the rush to do much more than aim my load as I'm pumping out, once I've wrung the beast dry I'll usually keep stroking to ensure I stay hard for the next round.
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I have been practicing really lengthy edging for a while now. I would edge myself watch videos, or chatting with someone inline or even in person and would go for hours without shooting my load but during this time I would have reached "almost" climax several times without shooting my load.
if you train yourself this way then you would be able to stop it and not let it out yet you will not feel as if you have wasted your orgasm at all because you still have not shot your load yet.
once you have reach near orgasm five or six times or even more then when you finally give up and shoot then it would be very intense. mine lasts for almost a minute if I do it right
if you train yourself this way then you would be able to stop it and not let it out yet you will not feel as if you have wasted your orgasm at all because you still have not shot your load yet.
once you have reach near orgasm five or six times or even more then when you finally give up and shoot then it would be very intense. mine lasts for almost a minute if I do it right
Yes, I've been doing this as well. Mine doesn't last for a minute but usually about 20-25 secs!
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that's how mine was at first man.
keep edging yourself. I edge myself every day for at least 4 hours here and there.
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When I was younger I'd stroke until I could feel that I was about to shoot off, then I'd stop stroking. I just sit or lay back and watch the ropes of cum shoot out. At least six squirts of cum each time. My cock throbbing balls jerking.
After I got married I'd push as deep as I could and stop while I was shooting deep in her pussy. Then one night she told me to keep fucking through my orgasm as she was orgasming at the same time. Or she'd grind on me while I was cuming so hard.
After that when jacking off I'd just keep stroking through until I was done shooting my ropes of cum. Very intense either way I do it. But now I always keep stroking until all the cum is out.
After I got married I'd push as deep as I could and stop while I was shooting deep in her pussy. Then one night she told me to keep fucking through my orgasm as she was orgasming at the same time. Or she'd grind on me while I was cuming so hard.
After that when jacking off I'd just keep stroking through until I was done shooting my ropes of cum. Very intense either way I do it. But now I always keep stroking until all the cum is out.
I don't stop but I do slow down a bit before cumming. I've learned that it intensifies my orgasm.
It also helps to take your time and not beat off 100 mph.
It also helps to take your time and not beat off 100 mph.
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