To stop or not?!

[deleted300444]

For the majority of guys, I think their instinctive reaction at orgasm is to tense their body, push deep, and hold relatively still (perhaps quivering or shuddering just a little) while the sperm is pumped out. I tend to lose control, jerking and spasming and thrusting irregularly during my ejaculation. I've been told I "cum like a girl".

"Laughs at cums like a girl". Funny.

And a very hairy cock.

 

[insert_8]

"Laughs at cums like a girl". Funny.

I thought it was embarrassing when I first heard it but I understand the reasoning: I am more animated, and more vocal, than most men at orgasm.

 

[919507]

If I’m doing it myself I keep stroking until I’ve finished. With sex I push as deep as possible but then don’t thrust anymore.

 

[1141702]

If I’m doing it myself I keep stroking until I’ve finished. With sex I push as deep as possible but then don’t thrust anymore.

Same on the sex, especially if the your getting pulled in, I tend to thrust but don't come as far out as before, if I think on it. Hmm...

 

[Stabilo]

when i am doing it alone i usually jerk during the orgasm and right after.
when fucking a pussy i try to go deeper and stand there until cum has finished flowing

 

[622675]

For me I miss some of the feeling of the orgasm if I keep stroking while J/O, however, either way is a great experience.

When getting a B/J it is always better to thrust until orgasm or make whatever moves help keep you from cuming too soon. But once the throbbing starts then hold still in your favorite position and let your partner do the rest (and hopefully that means suck down real hard).

***** The right kind of conversation during m/m sex is great and isn’t something that might come from a girl. (smiles and thinks of a 69)

 

[boatnik]

I always edge my cock during every masturbation session. I stop stimulation when I am about one stroke from cumming and then slowly resume stroking and surf along that edge for a while until the urge to orgasm subsides. Then I build up to the next one and surf along again. After doing that several times I will finally lose control start stroking wildly until my whole body bursts forth with an earth-shaking orgasm. I keep stroking and cumming for what seems like an eternity and I don't stop stroking until I come down off the other side of that orgasmic euphoria. There is no way I could ever stop stroking when I orgasm.

 

[uc7dad]

edging brings such pleasure when that last stroke before the climax

 

[450971]

Not to get too off topic but with edging - does it train you to last a longer time until you cum or does that time stay the same and it teaches you how to recognize it and therefore do whatever you need to (slow down/switch positions, etc) to prevent it?

 

[Addicted2edging]

If jerking I don't stop... I focus a couple of fingers right on my frenulum and rapidly stimulate it as I cum. My hips usually thrust into it as though I am driving my cock deep.

Stopping as I cum makes for a less intense orgasm.

good description for edging ritual

 

[Addicted2edging]

edging brings such pleasure when that last stroke before the climax

stopping sperm flow at PONR 9,9 is an extreme addictive ritual !

 

[Addicted2edging]

I have been practicing really lengthy edging for a while now. I would edge myself watch videos, or chatting with someone inline or even in person and would go for hours without shooting my load but during this time I would have reached "almost" climax several times without shooting my load.

if you train yourself this way then you would be able to stop it and not let it out yet you will not feel as if you have wasted your orgasm at all because you still have not shot your load yet.

once you have reach near orgasm five or six times or even more then when you finally give up and shoot then it would be very intense. mine lasts for almost a minute if I do it right

practicing this so many times until the whole male reprodutive system is exhausted ...and there is no final last orgasmic relief ! edging is the way ! the final last orgasm is not the goal of this frustrating ritual.