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First off, I hope this doesn't offend anyone, that's not really my brand. My brand is making statements and calling things out when it needs to be called out. I'm not saying this applies to strictly older white men, but this seems to mostly happen with them. I'll even share an example of what I'm going to discus. This happened literally 15 minutes ago:
There, I even made it nice and big for you so there's no confusion. I don't give a fuck what realm of fetish you're in, you will never refer to me as a slave and you should never refer to anyone as a slave. This man (who's old enough to be my grandfather) apparently still thinks in his mind this shit is Okay. First, let me just ask, who the fuck think this is Okay and there's nothing wrong with this? Now before you answer and without going to far into that detail, I'm obviously black. I've learned recently that my ancestry traces back in Nigeria and the small places around it, but mostly Nigeria. I'm from North Carolina, where people of places like Nigeria were take and transported (millions were killed on the boats) to North Carolina to work on the fields. Where I grew up, it's very conservative and racism is very much still alive. So yes, WILL not take kindly to being referred to as slave. And the fact that this man and many others like him don't even take time to think and realize the wrong in them facilitating that like it's Okay, it's sickening.
Then the other week, I had another guy (younger than him, but old enough to be my dad)... Let me just show that, I only state the facts:
There. As you can see, this is someone else that wanted to own me, he used a different approach. Now some of you might say I could have cut it short, I wanted to know what his intentions were. I've made my intentions clear to him and on my profile. Of course I knew his intentions from going on his profile. But, I wanted to know why he DM'd me, now I see. There seems to be this common behavior of being so attracted to someone so strongly that you simply want to own them in entirety, without them having an existing presence outside of... whatever the person is being owned for. It all comes down to having dominating power over someone. I know that's a thing, but shit like this is where the line should be drawn. If ya'll are going to approach people of color, especially someone of my background, like take some thought. Check the calendar of what today's year is, check the time when this was Okay in public, and understand this shit will not be tolerated. Period.
That's all I have to say. Also, I'M NOT SAYING ALL OLDER WHITE MEN ARE LIKE THIS. And, I'M NOT SAYING THIS JUST HAPPENS TO YOUNG BLACK MEN. I don't think ANYONE, should be referred to as a slave. Do you guys know we still have slavery going on in some countries? Okay, well I hope this doesn't start any arguments. I just wanted to shine a light on a pattern I noticed that I'm tired of seeing.
And if you're going to speak in this forum, have an open mind and see both sides. Don't come on here trying to speak from one side and only trying to validate that one side, I don't entertain shit like that, you'll just be ignored. I'll read you comment though.
There, I even made it nice and big for you so there's no confusion. I don't give a fuck what realm of fetish you're in, you will never refer to me as a slave and you should never refer to anyone as a slave. This man (who's old enough to be my grandfather) apparently still thinks in his mind this shit is Okay. First, let me just ask, who the fuck think this is Okay and there's nothing wrong with this? Now before you answer and without going to far into that detail, I'm obviously black. I've learned recently that my ancestry traces back in Nigeria and the small places around it, but mostly Nigeria. I'm from North Carolina, where people of places like Nigeria were take and transported (millions were killed on the boats) to North Carolina to work on the fields. Where I grew up, it's very conservative and racism is very much still alive. So yes, WILL not take kindly to being referred to as slave. And the fact that this man and many others like him don't even take time to think and realize the wrong in them facilitating that like it's Okay, it's sickening.
Then the other week, I had another guy (younger than him, but old enough to be my dad)... Let me just show that, I only state the facts:
There. As you can see, this is someone else that wanted to own me, he used a different approach. Now some of you might say I could have cut it short, I wanted to know what his intentions were. I've made my intentions clear to him and on my profile. Of course I knew his intentions from going on his profile. But, I wanted to know why he DM'd me, now I see. There seems to be this common behavior of being so attracted to someone so strongly that you simply want to own them in entirety, without them having an existing presence outside of... whatever the person is being owned for. It all comes down to having dominating power over someone. I know that's a thing, but shit like this is where the line should be drawn. If ya'll are going to approach people of color, especially someone of my background, like take some thought. Check the calendar of what today's year is, check the time when this was Okay in public, and understand this shit will not be tolerated. Period.
That's all I have to say. Also, I'M NOT SAYING ALL OLDER WHITE MEN ARE LIKE THIS. And, I'M NOT SAYING THIS JUST HAPPENS TO YOUNG BLACK MEN. I don't think ANYONE, should be referred to as a slave. Do you guys know we still have slavery going on in some countries? Okay, well I hope this doesn't start any arguments. I just wanted to shine a light on a pattern I noticed that I'm tired of seeing.
And if you're going to speak in this forum, have an open mind and see both sides. Don't come on here trying to speak from one side and only trying to validate that one side, I don't entertain shit like that, you'll just be ignored. I'll read you comment though.