Dear LSPG tops (and straight men), As a bottom who's currently with a man who is too thick for myself, I'd like to offer a little advice. Even though my top is too big for me sex is still amazing. Here's a list of things to learn from your bottom before you kill someone: 1) Learn the difference between "oh yeah" and "oww no." Sounds straight forward but really... if your partner says to stop or wait. Do it. It's not fun for either of you if one person is in agony while you're trying to get your sexy on. On the same note, "hang on" doesn't mean "I'm not interested." I, like many bottoms i know, am not a superstar bottom. I can't take a beating from a telephone pole for a prolonged period of time without time to adjust or recover. When something like this happens, you can refer to my second point. 2) Change it up. Speed, depth, position, location, etc. It doesn't matter how much you like a roller coaster, if you ride the same one too many times you're either going to lose interest or vomit. If you've done it cowboy style a lot lately, change it up and give the poor stallion something interesting. A good sucking off is a good way to show your bottom you're still in charge, and also give them a bit of a break from being broken. 3) For the love of everything sexy, remember that sex is a two way street. BUT having said that please note that your bottom needs attention too. Find something that stimulates both of you. Nothing is worse than a top who focuses only on themselves. As a bottom I've caught myself thinking "if I wanted to just jack off like this I could do it myself." And the guy I was with was rather large, so it can happen to even the big guys. 4) Finally, remember that size doesn't mean skill. You can have the biggest, longest, thickest most perfect penis is the entire history of sex, but if you don't know how to treat your partner you're screwed (and not the good kinda). There's a saying that I like to remind people of: "Sex is like bridge, you better either have a good partner or a good hand." Save on sore wrists and be a good partner. Sorry for the rant but it was on the mind! Thanks and let me know what you think.