Sure you guys 'pay' (I've spent years paying into those same systems over there) but much of these services are heavily subsidized by the government and not in an amount equivalent to the added taxes paid. I truly doubt most Europeans could afford to live if they had to pay the same amounts for all this stuff that Americans do.
Do I think it's a good system on our side? Absolutely not! Europeans have a a much higher potential for enjoying life. And let's face it, it's almost impossible to starve to death or be homeless (unless by choice) in most of the EU. In the US, most people are one small illness, traffic accident, or missed paycheck away from total irreparable economic ruin. Yes, it's a truly sad situation that the most capable, richest, and most innovative country on earth has such a poor system of social justice.
But, when I spend decades hearing how 'Americans never travel" or "Americans don't speak other languages" or "Americans never bother to see the world" and those people never account for the very different nature of the two societies and how most Americans can work their entire lives and never be able to afford to (truly afford with money, not choose not to) leave the country, it's just a sad set of ignorant assumptions on the part of European critics.
So within the context of this thread, the fact that most Americans DO learn a foreign language even with the knowledge that they will likely never get the chance to actually use it, should be lauded and is to me much more a sign of an interest in the world than having to learn a language because the country next door speaks it and you have to use that language for business or travel.
And, one final thing, America DOES do society. They do it far more than Europeans do, they just do it differently. Sure they have this misguided ideal that the government shouldn't do things that most governments do. BUT, no people on earth give more of their time and money to charities than Americans do. Americans do do society, they just believe helping others is something people themselves should do, and instead of protesting for their government to do something, they actually get out their pocketbooks and write a check out of their own accounts. I very rarely saw this to even remotely the same scale in Europe. And even if you look at governments, the US gives more money to development and relief funds every year than all other countries on earth combined. Heck of a way not to 'do society'.