I'm female and have a very close friendship with a guy who's 26. We are quite often involved sexually, though mostly just oral. Following the first time we did anything sexual, he asked me if it was the size I expected it would be. I hesitated because I didn't want to hurt his feelings but with his insistence on a truthful answer, told him that I had expected it would be a little bigger. He looked absolutely shattered and I felt pretty terrible because of how crushed he looked. On countless occasions since then, he has asked me how he rates in terms of size compared to other guys. To save his feelings, I have always done my best not to answer by saying something like "It's hard for me to say cos I haven't really had much contact with many penises." (He knows I've slept with more women than men) It usually ends with him saying something like "I know I'm not big, but I'm about average, right?" to which I just say yes. Now just today we measured his penis on his suggestion as he is wanting to try penis growth pills, and he measured just short of 5' erect length and 4' girth. I have been doing most of the research regarding penis enlargement and he's asked me to find out some stats on average penis sizes. So tomorrow he will ask me about these stats and I'll have to 'break the news' to him about how small he really is compared to the average man. I am sensitive towards his feelings so I'm a tad anxious about how he'll feel. Any words of advice on how to deal with this, and about me having lied to him consistently in the past about him bring average to save his feelings. I don't want him feel I deceived him. TIA.