Speaking from my own experience, she asked me out. I had *NO* pre-meditated designs on sex; she quite surprised me, I must say. Maybe I'm 'unique,' but a dinner date is (to me) a dinner date, not an invitation to the possibility of the chance to maybe have sex, sometime......how do you even get the nerve to ask them out? Let alone get to the nekkid tango point[?]...
...or more likely, I just don't understand women....
[ps. -- and no harm intended -- but how is it you've 18 THOUSAND posts and degrees galore but yet to master the quote function, nj?! :biggrin1::tongue::wink:]