Too big for her

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Philippe8, Nov 20, 2010.

  1. Philippe8

    Philippe8 Well-Known Member

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    This is a little embarassing.. About a week ago I started dating this cute girl whom I really like. Last night she came over and of course, we ended up in bed. What should have been an amazing night ended in a big disappointment. I was too big for her. No matter what I tried, it just didn't fit. Even after some foreplay I just couldn't get it in. This happened two times before, but I blamed it on the booze.. should have known better by then already. Really want to make this work, considering we're all in the same boat, anyone has some advice for me? My penis is 9,5 inches, I just uploaded an image for illustration. Thanks!
     
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    Lambycake New Member

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    considering we're all in the same boat

    I am not a passenger in the 'too big for her' boat.

    I wish I were.
     
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    you can do it. It's gonna take time, lots of mouth and finger work and lube
     
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    Why would you want that?!? I guess having a big dick is its own reward.
     
  6. Philippe8

    Philippe8 Well-Known Member

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    So you suggest anal? Her on top might prove to be a challenge since she didn't want to yesterday.. Why she didn't want to no clue.. Should i still bother to use lube?
     
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    Why wouldn't you use lube? Have you had sex before?

    Anal takes more skill and practice than vaginal sex and proper preparation with graduated dildos and using enemas at least an hour before you can attempt with a large penis. It's not something that you can just do spontaneously when you encounter a guy with a large penis. If she's a total anal virgin, her first dozen times should playing without using your penis. Soft jelly toys for anal play only for the first dozen times, until she's gotten used to some size in her ass.

    Is she a virgin? Are you? Have you had anal before with an anal virgin?
     
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    It is. A big dick makes you superior.
     
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    Too big as in too long, i.e, you couldn't enter her all the way?

    Or too big as in too thick, i.e, you couldn't enter her at all?

    If so, what is your girth?
     
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    This is BS. No way the dick in those pics is 9.5 inches! Looks more like 6 or 7.
     
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    I agree but I think 7"-8" BPEL and 5" girth (see big finger (I have 8" hands and my big finger is 3" and this penis width is about 1.5"))
     
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    Not everyone finds it easier to take a larger penis with the woman on top. Personally I HATE going on top until I've adjusted myself to him.

    And of course you should use lube - if you can't get in WITH it, do you really think you'll get in WITHOUT it?
     
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    I'm confused what does booze have to do with being too big for her???
     
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    dong-in-khakis New Member

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    ..she may be tiny inside, some women are, but that cock doesn't look to big for penetration.

    A good length too, but doesn't look like 9.5.

    How do you measure?
     
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    good that you included pics... very nice penis but size not an issue with above average so lube, yes, all that stuff but size not issue, she might have clamped up for emotional reasons so if slow down relationship, take a couple steps back and have some more fun dates that don't end with sex, penetration sex anyway, be sensual for awhile, again very nice penis and she will be greatly pleased by it presuming you have skills but size not the issue
     
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    1. Some women (maybe a lot?) can't take big cock at all. Some can with practice and there are the gifted ones who take it right away.

    2. Go slow. Apparently if you push your penis all the way in someone and start mild to hard fucking right away...it hurts. Who knew :confused:

    3. Eventually you may be able to do hard fucking but before you get to that stage you may want to think about:


    • Stretching her out first with fingers or small toys
    • Fucking her with only half your dick or so
    • Oral sexing her pussy
    4. If she/they are making you stop after five minutes then you're doing it wrong. That was a hard lesson for me to learn. Of course some women just aren't built for big cock but if you take it slow (meaning a few days and/or weeks) you will have the most success.
     
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    Actually, I thought the very same thing without a single glance to his pics.

    I don't know if it's the 9.5 reference, or the explicit invitation to have a look at his gallery, in my opinion this entire topic falls back among the so many 'please look at my pics and say something'.

    [moreover, only girth can make a penis 'too big for her', meaning it cannot fit in not even partly. You can be 18" long, but with a normal girth you'll be able to shove in the same 6/7" everyone else does.]
     
  18. Philippe8

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    thanks for the good advice all.. couple weeks ago the same thing happened but i retried and took it slow.. eventually we had a great night. i have been dating her for two weeks now and apart from some minor setbacks the sex has been great. for the ones that have trouble understanding my motive to put myself on the spot here, i'm not here to show off or advertise my private parts for that matter, i only wanted some useful advice and preferred the anonymous way
     
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