Hi guys, i really need some advice. my long term partner has told me that after almost a year having sex is really not pleasureable for her as i am too big for her, it feels to her like i am hitting something inside of her and causing her discomfort and pain. this is the last thing i want. i have told her we should go and see someone about it but she has heard through others that there is nothing that can be done so we might as well give up. is this true? or is there anything that can be done to help this problem???