Too Big for Virgin?

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

I'll start with saying that I'd gladly take it if she can't. ;P

Anyway, even I as a gay dude know some stuff. Make sure she's comfortable, don't be like: "So let's have sex..". Ease it in to her, gently caress and touch her, maybe give her a massage. Slowly take off her clothes while you kiss different body parts. TALK with her through everything, ask her in a sweet voice if she's okey and what she wants. Touch her around without going in, make sure she feels excited. Enter with one finger and work it carefully, switch from finger to tongue if you want, then back to finger. Try to add another and work it a bit, while you whisper sweet nothings to her. Add a third finger and try to open her up, now you'll see (and/or hear: moans) when she's ready, ask her as well if she really is ready. Take it SLOW, use a lot of lube and ease it in to her, no SLAMMING TO THE BONE. xD

Euw, I feel dirty just writing this, haha.. xD
Would've been fun if your mom came in just a tad bit earlier, good luck explaining that! xD



This is rubbish. You can't compare child birth with sex. When a woman is pregnant, and going through birth, there's tons of things happening in the body, hormons being released, to help the progress, and a lot of women actually get torn down there, don't think he wants to do that.

Haha, very flattering but sorry i'm only straight :redface:. Very good information, have definately learnt a lot! you guys seem to know a lot about pleasing women for gay guys haha, thanks a bunch!

 

[B_kracker]

has she see your cock hard.. let her get used it fondling you, bj if she will do that..gurenteed she's going to want that beauty in her, lubercate and take your time you'll be fine

 

[swat611]

you've got a big dick, no doubt. It may hurt her at first, but after the first time, she'll love that fat cock. I've got a big dick too, so i know where you're coming from. good luck man!

 

[EmJay]

Well..she is going to hurt some anyway.. The whole deal is about making her feel comfortable at all times.. Some music, room is tidy and nice, start to kiss and caress her, kissing (french) usually helps alot getting her wet, kiss her niples gently and suck on them..then head for her vagina and lick her..you will feel from her responses that she is getting wetter and wetter..(practice on your hand to create sensual movements with your tong..watch some video's)..Its like french kissing her but now with her vagina.. Make sure you have some lube handy..or put some on your dick just to be ready..

Then go slow...when you first get in the tip..move slow..let her adjust to your size..and slowly push it in..everytime she will adjust and you can go further..untill you reach the hymen..when you push through..hold her tight..kiss her..and move your hips gently so she can adjust to the pain..

The pain will subside..and before you know it..you can pick up the pace..

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

Thanks, for all the advice guys/girls you have all been a great help. No she has never seen me flaccid (im a shower so its usually about 6" x 5.7" flaccid anyway) nor has she seen me erect. I will definately keep in mind everything i have learnt, thanks!. Can't wait! :biggrin1:

 

[Charles Finn]

you have a great cock just take your time and plenty of foreplay maybe her on top

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

you have a great cock just take your time and plenty of foreplay maybe her on top

Thanks, will do :smile:

atleast on top she can control it.

 

[B_subgirrl]

you have a great cock just take your time and plenty of foreplay maybe her on top

Thanks, will do :smile:

atleast on top she can control it.

Sorry, but I've always thought this was the dumbest advice ever. For me it is almost impossible to relax on top because I have to use my leg and back muscles so much. And relaxing is exactly what you need her to do. It's quite easy enough for her to take control during missionary using her hands and knees.

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

Sorry, but I've always thought this was the dumbest advice ever. For me it is almost impossible to relax on top because I have to use my leg and back muscles so much. And relaxing is exactly what you need her to do. It's quite easy enough for her to take control during missionary using her hands and knees.

oh ok, thanks didnt think of that, you have been a great help :smile:

 

[B_subgirrl]

oh ok, thanks didnt think of that, you have been a great help :smile:

You're welcome :smile:

 

[hud01]

Just in case make sure you have lube very handy. Either with lube, spit or her juices, coat your cock, especially the head and the first couple of inches.

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

Just in case make sure you have lube very handy. Either with lube, spit or her juices, coat your cock, especially the head and the first couple of inches.

Thanks for the advice, definately plan on having lube handy.

 

[Stephenmass]

I guess what it boils down to aussie123 (btw I was married for a year to a woman) is to take your time, there is no rush, plenty of foreplay, have as said above lube around (I prefer silicone because it lasts and is the closest to the real thing) and take your time when you enter her, as a couple of the women said above, give her time to adjust to it's size; the first time you may or may not be able to plunge as deeply as you want but you may be able to if she can take it. I was married to a petite woman, you would think she would not be able to take me but she made me cock disappear everytime. Make it fun, make it enjoyable, you're not on a timeclock and if she is not on the pill (or even if she is) wear a condom!! You look thicker than me, so I am not sure of the size!!

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

I guess what it boils down to aussie123 (btw I was married for a year to a woman) is to take your time, there is no rush, plenty of foreplay, have as said above lube around (I prefer silicone because it lasts and is the closest to the real thing) and take your time when you enter her, as a couple of the women said above, give her time to adjust to it's size; the first time you may or may not be able to plunge as deeply as you want but you may be able to if she can take it. I was married to a petite woman, you would think she would not be able to take me but she made me cock disappear everytime. Make it fun, make it enjoyable, you're not on a timeclock and if she is not on the pill (or even if she is) wear a condom!! You look thicker than me, so I am not sure of the size!!

oh ok thanks a lot, great advice.

I've put my measurements in my signature now as people have been asking for them a lot so this way its easier lol.

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

i think it may be happening tommorow night as i might be seeing her on nye, will see what happens! :redface:

 

[HappyBoi]

Stick with one thread, stupid to have two threads with the same topic, and updating both.

Good luck tomorrow! Hope that midnight kiss leads to something more!

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

Stick with one thread, stupid to have two threads with the same topic, and updating both.

Good luck tomorrow! Hope that midnight kiss leads to something more!

thanks yeh sorry made the 2nd one because i forgot i had made this one already at the time xD also wasnt sure which sub section to post in

 

[yoursgetsmine]

Practice on me.........

 

[SpeedoMike]

trust yourself to do what's right. don't overthink the "process". as for condom size, buy several different products and give them a road trip until you find what you like.

 

[SR_Daniel Dangler]

trust yourself to do what's right. don't overthink the "process". as for condom size, buy several different products and give them a road trip until you find what you like.

ok thanks, i think i may need XL condoms for the girth, i have tried on lifesyle regular so called "easy fit" and i couldnt even roll it past the head. Only had those ones because they were being given away at a stand a while back.