Ever decided to stay in at home because it's too big and hard and won't go down? Instead of an evening out with your friends do you occasionally say no, sorry, I can't, and sit at home with your parents watching boring tv programmes ? The big bulge attracts too much attention and at home at least you can sit there with a newspaper across your knees, to cover the tension lines till it softens. What I'm asking is has you big masculine size brought this kind of awkwardness on you.