Too fascinating to fuck?

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  1. jjsjr

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    I don't know about many other people, but upon meeting someone really cute, my mind already falls into the gutter. However, if the person has such friendship potential, I almost immediately cease to have dirty thoughts and begin to appreciate the friendship instead.

    Has anyone else had similar experiences of meeting someone who's attractive but too fascinating to fuck?
     
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    No one is too fascinating to fuck ...
     
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    I am the complete opposite. Unless you're interesting enough to be a good friend of mine, you aren't getting any.

    Do you typically get into relationships with the people you have sex with, or is it NSA, generally?
     
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    It varies depending on the individuals. I tend to make more friends than friends with benefits.
     
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    Up until my early 30s, my criteria for potential sex partners were much broader, and the only people who were completely off limits were co-workers. Virtually all my friends were former hookups, fuckbuds or lovers.
     
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    If someone is fascinating and hot there's no way I'm not going to want to fuck them. Detract one or the other and it depends entirely on how horny I am.
     
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    Whenever I went out on a date, if I liked the person and saw some potential for something more than a hookup, then sex was not on the menu that night, or the immediate future for matter. However, if all they seemed to be interested was a quick hookup - and they were reasonably attractive - sure, I fucked 'em off their feet and never returned their calls again. :cool: (btw - this tactic seemed to work - I didn't sleep with my partner until 3 mos into our relationship - and we've been together 6 yrs now)
     
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    This girl I met in my english class is smoking hot but I havent even thought about fucking her one because our conversations are WAY too interesting.

    This is only the 2nd time this has happened to me
     
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    I understand the concept but can't be 100% sure I have experienced it
     
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    I have experienced it and rationalized it.
    Even with women I knew fancied me, even when almost decided to go to the next level, i didn't go further, because they were such interesting girls and I was afraid of destroying a life long interesting friendship potential, just to get some sex.
     
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    what? NO!
    no one is too interesting to fuck.
    i was going to say 'they HAVE to be interesting to fuck"
    but then i just had a flashback and realized that was a silly
    thing to say. lol.
    anyway - if there is a person i find interesting that i want to fuck and
    she wants to fuck me too, then ALL RIGHT! (yay me! : )
    i have no worries about alienating an interesting woman that could be a friend
    because we fucked.
     
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    Definately. If hes fascinating and cute, he is bf material, then I take it slow. If he is just great friend material, I try not to have sex, cause it fucks the friendship.
     
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    No, the opposite. If they are attractive and good friendship material, then that will make me want them even more (since I believe being good friends is the number 1 key factor to successful relationship).
     
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    What these guys said.

    Even now, several of my friends are former sex partners.
     
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    Agreed. In fact, I think fascinating people make for more exhilarating fucks in the end.
     
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    LPSG.org needs a like button.
     
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    people can be too fascinating to fuck I think tho
    you can't really say no one is too facsinating to fuck unless you have met everyone in the world, otherwise you just havn't met the right, unfuckable person yet
     
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    I once had a girl tell me that she respected me too much to have sex with me, so she boned someone else.

    What kind of f'ed up logic is that?

    I'd rather she just tell me the truth. I already know that I'm creepy, fat, ugly, and too damn "short" in the hung-department.

    Maybe I'm wrong...Maybe I AM so fascinating that I can't get laid by women or men. Somehow I don't think that's the reason.
     
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    No.

    But I'm not easily fascinated. "Fascinating" is too often, an act.
     
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    I came to associate sex with evanescence, seeing so many tricks come and go that if I really wanted someone in my life longterm it seemed prudent not to pursue him/her for sex. Suspecting that out of embarrassment they wouldn't want to be my friends afterwards, I missed out on some real opportunities. Still have friends about whom I contemplated hooking up 20-30 years ago but didn't. Doesn't mean that if we had we wouldn't be friends anyway-- but I didn't keep any of the old hookups as friends. Only the ones I didn't go to bed with are still around decades later. So maybe there really is something to sex interfering with friendship, but some are immune to this problem.
     
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