this isnt a fix my problem thread, i'm just curious about thoughts and experiences on the matter. Since they always say, "Oh you are SO hard" in such a pleased tone, I can gather that a rock hard erection is a psychological boost for women (men as well, i'm sure), but do you think it is a factor in soreness afterwards. Are there advantages to an erection that has a bit of "give" to it both to the squeeze and the shape, I'd imagine that there are. I don't have much experience with penises but i'm just as rigid as they come, to flick it would be like to flick a kneecap. There's no jiggle, no flexibility, hell, it wont even point more than 45 degrees away from my body. It just seems that more often than not, I cause some soreness. Its not my size, its not foreplay or eagerness, women i've been with have had no lubrication problems, not my agressiveness as all my partners tend to slam it around a lot more than me when they get on top. It just seems like it could be a factor. If it is a problem, unfortunately it could just go away in time. Never seen a thread on this and was just curious, men with expertise are certainly welcome to join in.