Too Hard?

[twolf]

Hi all,

I came across LPSG last week while investigating some of the things my wife (my only partner ever) would like to be different about my penis (8x5.5).

She is very petite and has joked for years that she would like me to be about an inch to an inch and a half shorter to make hard, balls-deep, pounding pleasurable/possible.

She has a silicone dildo/vibe that's almost exactly my size (a gift from me, but not a cast of me). She has also said that sometimes she likes using it because it's not a hard as me, and so can be a different sort of satisfying.

Has anyone else been told they're too hard? Too big I can believe, I've seen enough big dick porn to know that not all guys can get balls-deep in all girls, but the only stiffness complaints I've seen on the net is guys who can't get or stay hard (not a problem I have).

Thanks for your input in advance.

 

[bobuloo200]

hmm, thats interesting, i never thought how hard you were would hurt a women any more or less.

 

[D_John Handcock]

maybe there is some type of slide on balls that slide over the shaft limiting the depth of insertion yet allowing the false balls to slap her giving here the balls deep pleasurable experience without the pain. i havent looked for said product... just a thought

 

[ShowOff]

FWIW
Even though it might be the same size as you.. dont forget that 2" of that needs to be used as a handle.

But no never heard of too hard unless youre also too thick and that has a bit more give in the girth dept.

Does your cock have any unusual curve that might hurt?

 

[twolf]

ShowOff - Good thought about the extra give compensating for the thickness.

FYI I wasn't her first, but she's told me I am her longest, thickest and hardest (am I blushing? . I suppose that "hardest" could be an interpretation of thickest as per ShowOff (that comment made some good sense).

 

[baldyboy8000]

You can use a donut on your penis. It'll keep you from banging her inside, you'll just hit her outside first.

 

[mwealex]

An ex girlfriend would periodically tell me I would get too hard. She was also a petite girl.

 

[lerotic]

I had a girlfriend who i could never take from behind even though she enjoyed it, so she chose to have be sitting up in a chair so she could grind against be and control the depth. We finally found out that if after i'd shot my load the period shortly after where i went softer she loved me to take her from behind and would orgasm

 

[Incocknito]

Well I had a petite girlfriend and she could take my cock the best out of most others. But she was 'prepped' with fingering and using dildos etc for a month or two before she got my cock. We started slow but eventually she got used to it.

Others complained I was "too hard" and would make me stop after a few minutes.

Then there was one girl who I could fuck as hard as I wanted, in any position and she wouldn't complain (and would always be high pitched screaming and dripping wet).

But most girls need to be eased in to a big cock. But you say she's your wife so I assume she should be used to it by now. Some people will never get used to it though.

Oh and that one girl who I could fuck any which way LOVED me putting my soft(ish) cock in her and feeling it get hard inside her. Maybe that would be something to try? I think sometimes they do that in porn.

 

[VernalTiger]

Female here... Can't say I've ever experienced "too hard" - my guess is that it could just be that your penis, because of its length, is bruising/jabbing her cervix, causing her pain. Something like the donut suggested earlier could help decrease your penetrative length.

 

[petite]

I've blown TheBF until he's cum so that he wouldn't be so hard when we had vaginal sex after. The head of his dick becomes softer after he's cum once, so it doesn't hurt like it does when he's rock hard, and he's able to go again a second time.

I think this link might be of help to you:

http://www.lpsg.org/186851-sex-aid-penetration-inhibiting-donuts.html

 

[stee_8]

An ex of mine use to always comment how hard I use to get. Would be along the lines "you are so hard, feels so big inside me"... was always a nice comment. We were pretty open n she told me I was smaller than her last 3 boyfriends (2 on length). She also said that it felt much better than the others (9 and 11inches). Her comments regarding my size were modest, normally along tge lines of "nice size" or "normal".
I was experimenting with test enhances at the time and vividly remember having hard ons like an iron bar...... I use to hammer the fuck out of her big time mmmmmm ah them were the days.

 

[B_mrblabla]

I've been told I get too hard! I believe hardness+girth could be why your gf complains sometimes.

 

[twolf]

Thanks for the quick replies everyone! Some great ideas that I'll try tonight. I'll let you know how it goes.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Apparently most women don't like to put very hard things in their vaginas - that's why squishy toys are so popular. I'm the opposite - I like very hard things - but I could imagine some of the penises I've played with being too hard for some women.

 

[paigexox]

I have never experienced the too hard phenomenon.

but,

I would wager a guess that it's more a matter of being near your wife's upper limits of size accommodation, and since your dick is hard, it is not as pliable as as her toy of the same size -- so your penis better maintains its shape and makes her bend to it, rather than somewhat conforming to her vaginal canal and "bunching up" after you contact her deep spot(s).

 

[RawDog]

I had posted something similar here:

http://www.lpsg.org/205511-ladies-your-experinces-with-a.html#post3029617

Subgirrl did most of the replies, and I found it enlightening.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I had posted something similar here:

http://www.lpsg.org/205511-ladies-your-experinces-with-a.html#post3029617

Subgirrl did most of the replies, and I found it enlightening.

That thread ended up being more about how subgirrl likes them hard than anything else :biggrin1: It was a fun discussion though, and the OP might indeed get some insight there.

 

[Ryder239]

The complaints I've had about pain with penetration fall into two categories. She's not dilated or lubed enough, which I believe was my fault and easily resolved unless she's very nervous, in which case you may be having only oral sex that session. Or I bumped her cervix, which after the first time with a woman you know about any depth issues so just don't go balls deep or just wear a donut. If she complains about hardness, try taking a few thrusts with a semi and see if she complains. If not, but she complains as it hardens, it almost has to be lube.

 

[SpeedoMike]

You can use a donut on your penis. It'll keep you from banging her inside, you'll just hit her outside first.

what do you order at Krispy Kream to get these?