fathornlessunicorn: Hi first and foremost I'd like to thank this site, it's shines light that I haven't found anywhere else. side note: first post ever I am slightly young (20) and have had 2 sexual experiences with penetration. (My stats are 9.5 inch long and 7.5 inch girth). In both experiences I was unable to penetrate enough to keep the sex good (to keep hard) or If I did get hard i got kicked/jumped off for hurting them. These were both very short relationships (not exactly one night stands). I tried using lubricant and fingering in the second one but it did not help enough. What I'm wondering is, is my size too much for inexperienced women and should I just try for long term relationship sex (were I could use the progressively larger dildos). Also how much time would the "dildo" technique take? PS: I actually have 7 inch girth in the start which increases to 7.5 after 4 inches, do other people have this too?