Too much porn = thinking penis is smaller than it really is

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by thickdick07, Dec 4, 2008.

  1. thickdick07

    thickdick07 New Member

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    I think I've watched porn so much that i have such a wrong idea about what a big penis is.

    For the earlier part of my life(high school) i was only with one girl and we were basically each others firsts so i really didnt get that much feedback on my dick. At the very most i used to consider myself average. Only until in college when i was with a few other girls did i get any comments about my dick being big. I still really didnt think so.

    My dick is 7.25-7.50" bone pressed but very thick 6.25" at the base but 5.25" at the top (i have like a billy glide shaped dick lol)

    Honestly though when i watch a porn thats doesnt feature someone like ramon, billy glide, chris charming, or any black porn star i think to myself that this guy has an average penis at best.

    Is it like this for anyone else?
     
  2. D_Deceptivus Wrongpeter

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    Porn is supposed to be casual entertainment, maybe a teaching aid, but it's as rigged as an election in Chicago.

    Men and women frequently get tripped up believing "porn average" is "real world average". Your tool doesn't sound like it's in the very large category, but I bet a lot of woman would find it in the optimal category: girthy and long, but not too long.
     
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    I'm not sure. I would think that with all the porn out there, that average or small guys would show up on camera fairly often. Sometimes we see them, but it's usually a rarity, so it's hard to judge what the real average is. I guess in porn, penis size is so important that it trumps any other quality that would get a man into a porn movie. Kind of like height in the NBA, being short is such a disadvantage that we rarely see someone under 6'.
     
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    lol i could see this happening on this site
     
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    im struggling with this problem hardcore right now, especially with girls i like, i get worried that for soem reason the last guy they were with was probably huge when odds are that probably wasnt the case
     
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    I agree with this but its not that I think it "smaller than it is".. its that too much porn makes me believe my partner would really like sex better if I had a bigger one.

    I don't think my penis is "smaller than it is"... I know my realistic dimensions: 6"x4.4". I know it is average in length but thinner than average in girth. But porn shows how excited women get with a nice big one!

    -it visualy excites them when it pops out of their clothes
    -it amazes them when they hold it a feel its mass and size
    -they suck it with glee, licking the whole shaft
    -the 'OMFG' when penetration comes, and after the initial pentration start riding it like a wild woman wanting it all, balls deep.

    With my cock there is never that excitement and "wow" factor to sex, so it makes one feel thay have less than their partner really would want.
     
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    So stop watching porn

    -it visualy excites them when it pops out of their clothes
    -it amazes them when they hold it a feel its mass and size
    -they suck it with glee, licking the whole shaft
    -the 'OMFG' when penetration comes, and after the initial pentration start riding it like a wild woman wanting it all, balls deep

    My wife does all of this after almost 18 years!
     
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    For all that I know I am looking at the girl's body and tits intead of the guy's dick...
    But, I guess I would do a better job at it than them hhaha thats truly what I think.
     
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    It seems to be fairly common amongst straight men on here. Though not so much with the gay/bi men and women members.

    I suppose the difference is that we have more real-life experience of penises in all their varied glories. Plus, most of the time most of us are looking for more than just a phallus in a partner.
     
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    I was among those unenlightened folks when it came to "porn size" vs "real-life size". I used to think I was small, almost to the point of being ashamed. Slowly but surely but discovered that porn had been lying to me! Those huge-cocked guys only represented less then 3-4% of the men out there. While I'm not huge at 7.5 x 5.75 I am very happy with it now and am proud to be considered above-average.
     
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    Ok, this isn't a "look at my gallery" and tell me I'm wrong post. I actually kinda did fall into this in a way. I mean I never thought I was small, but being straight, outside of porn I never really had a point of reference to go by.

    I've had GFs/ex-wife etc make comments but I think as a guy you assume your partner will say certain things that they either think you need or want to hear. So I always took it with a grain of salt.

    This is really how I ended up here, my latest GF gave me a lot of compliments etc, and it was one of those "uh huh, sure". So I end up here and I'm like ok I fall into the median again lol, but again, I'm comparing to people on this site.

    So I can see how for a guy who isn't bouncing it off his knees can possibly think of himself as not being that big :shrug:
     
  12. D_Clumbert Cocksicle

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    You say that they are 3-4% of men out there? That is a lot of men walking around with kong dongs. I don't know, maybe I am crazy.
     
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