Too nice for my cock?
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well if your really want a LTR, be should be more of one.
seriously, disregard...most of what I said. You really need someone past playing games and looking for the bigger, better deal.
In that case you need to do what you grandparents would've told you. You need to find a nice girl. face to face. Get to know her. face to face. Get to know her friends and family. face to face.
take things slow. and then and only then when you're both ready to consummate your shared love for one another,..own her like the dirty lil whore she really is!!!:biggrin1:
i do like the idea of having a dirty whore as a girlfriend though. how long do you think she will continue to charge me?
Dude if your not going to pay attention and take this shit seriously I don't know why I should bother
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im sorry scalawag i cope with my problems by making light of them. thank you for the advice and it is sound.
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That's what they (women) want you to think!
Really it just takes a while and/or some luck to find the right female.
As for having a whore for a girlfriend. I had a whore for a girlfriend once. It was hot and she was awesome in bed. The problem was she wasn't just my girlfriend. She was the girlfriend of about five other guys as well.
Aside from the STI risk, it just didn't appeal to me being one of several other guys. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I've always wanted a girlfriend who would only fuck me.
My advice is stay away from any women who gives you advice like that women did.
Nothing but trouble. Such women just end up in lots of drama and problems from not being a good judge of character.
If a woman wants "bad boys", then that is a reflection of how she is not a good judge of character. Don't follow her advice. If she is telling you to act like a bad boy, then she is telling you to go against your own natural character. The end result is that more emotionally mature women will avoid you.
Nothing but trouble. Such women just end up in lots of drama and problems from not being a good judge of character.
If a woman wants "bad boys", then that is a reflection of how she is not a good judge of character. Don't follow her advice. If she is telling you to act like a bad boy, then she is telling you to go against your own natural character. The end result is that more emotionally mature women will avoid you.
you know...sometimes it's not just that girls don't like nice guys, it's that we don't like specific people. Case in point...I had a friend (with benefits), who I never considered more than a friend, and he proclaimed his love for me and I just couldn't return the feelings. Now, he's a doll, was great in bed, would do anything for me, funny, smart, handsome, etc. But, I just didn't *feel* it. Told him last July I didn't share his feelings and couldn't be more than friends. Told me he didn't care if I didn't love him back. He won't date anyone else. To this day he hasn't. I care about him. Even love him as a friend. But, I'm never going to be IN love with him but it has NOTHING to do with the fact that he's a nice guy. The chemistry is just not there. Period. Wouldn't love him any more if he were an ass. I love to hang out with him though because I truly enjoy his company...just can't be in love with him.
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there is alot to be said for confidence. i dont like cocky men but a man that commands attention and carries himself well is a keeper.
as to whatever that chick said, she was drunk and a basket case, it happens to the best of us. i mean if i was held accountable for all the shit i said whilst drunk dialing someone with a big dick, i would have loads of problems
as to whatever that chick said, she was drunk and a basket case, it happens to the best of us. i mean if i was held accountable for all the shit i said whilst drunk dialing someone with a big dick, i would have loads of problems
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Some good points have been made here already. If anyone of us has compromised self-esteem, for whatever reason, man or woman, we're going to make crappy decisions regarding partners. Until we make a concerted effort to examine our own character, negatives and positives included, we won't be dealing with others from a balanced mindset.
From a woman's perspective, I can say that there are many women (just as there are men) who don't want to examine themselves, for whatever reason. They're content saying whatever words spring to their lips without giving them any forethought. They don't believe in self-improvement. They lie to themselves and likewise to others. The more you learn about yourself, the easier it will be to spot these women and steer clear of them.
Also, regarding the "too nice for your cock" idea... Most men I've known with big cocks act... well, cocky! They act as though their cock is enough to carry them through life, without having to be a kind person who behaves with integrity and intelligence. That's my personal experience. Never have I found such a man who's the kind of person I want to remain with for any length of time.
And that's why I take my own advice - I'm single now because, until I do more work on myself, I know I'll attract the "wrong" guys.
I don't know......sounds like some past relationships I have had. And in retrospect they all had too much baggage which cause for too much emotional grief. With some, the sex was great. But that was it. So, if you're looking for long term, find someone who appreciates who you are, not who you should be for her. For short term go for the sex! But watch out for fatal attractions!
