I've lurked here for about five years now, but recent events make me want to say hi and ask a few questions of my own. Just to get the basics out of the way, I'm 22, 5'7", 155 lbs, average build, brown hair and eyes, 7.5x6 cut, and gay. I had no idea I was big until I started to sleep around, and I don't think it's completely sunk in. I have a really hard time topping--it's gone so poorly in the past that I can't stay hard when my partners want to bottom. In response to my first few failed attempts, I learned to bottom, and it turns out I'm really good at it. I've been able to accommodate a few large cocks (one 8x8 and one 10x7) and I loved doing it, so I get really frustrated when my partners can't bottom for me. I'm not looking for just sex, or at least that's what I tell myself. I know a few great guys, have started relationships, but things in the bedroom just don't satisfy me. I've had the opportunity to date guys just their dicks, but I haven't been able to bring myself to do that either. I'm sick of hooking up, too, though I say that with the disclaimer that if someone bigger than I've had before comes along, I'd hook up with him in an instant. I haven't yet met someone who I'm attracted to both what's in his pants and what's in his head, and while I know that someone must be out there that would do that for me, I'm wondering whether I should stop looking. I guess my question is whether those of you in a relationship have managed to find someone who meets their their sexual and non-sexual needs, or whether you've had to make a compromise to one side or the other? Is my desire for big cocks something I'm just going to have to get over?