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I imagine what your girl tells you will be truthful, and if it isnt then your relationship has more problems than you possibly not being able to satisfy her with your penis.

Exactly what I was thinking. But if you're not gonna believe her, why believe strangers on the internet?
 

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Kali, Patchos, and wildmann have offered some really good options. I'm not sure what "your lady" implies (wife, common law partner, commitment??) If any of these, you've committed yourself to her and "just moving on" is not as easy as it sounds.

My husband of 20 plus years is 5x5...we have been using, toys (dildos, vibrators, buzzers,) porn vids, role play for years... Just recently we started with reality fantasies (read my blog for more info). Works for some, for us, our sex is off the charts. For others it helps them face some harsh facts about themselves. (They never really loved one another to begin with.) This way you can BOTH agree that moving on is best instead of one person making the decision unilaterally.

Hopefully, the former will work for you, too.
 

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Kali, Patchos, and wildmann have offered some really good options. I'm not sure what "your lady" implies (wife, common law partner, commitment??) If any of these, you've committed yourself to her and "just moving on" is not as easy as it sounds.

My husband of 20 plus years is 5x5...we have been using, toys (dildos, vibrators, buzzers,) porn vids, role play for years... Just recently we started with reality fantasies (read my blog for more info). Works for some, for us, our sex is off the charts. For others it helps them face some harsh facts about themselves. (They never really loved one another to begin with.) This way you can BOTH agree that moving on is best instead of one person making the decision unilaterally.

Hopefully, the former will work for you, too.



Thanks for your advice
 

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You know men. They fucking think all women are liars. As a woman, I can't be trusted to tell you anything useful, so I'll move along.
God damn right. Know you place (the kitchen).

*Rides off on a Dinosaur that shoots flames out of it's ass and laserbeams covered in bacon and mustaches*
 
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You're kidding right?

If it hasn't eaten you alive yet, don't worry your little mangina is safe.

If your not having a good time with that, you should consider some form of therapy, because having a bigger dick won't help you.
 

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My lady is blessed with a truly lovely big pussy. Big lips and very deep. Unfortunately I am only 5.5" and average girth. I quite often get the feeling I am not satisfying her. Can the ladies give me some advice.


This coming from someone who only other thread started off...

My womans issue is she is a cold cunt. No romance, no affection and needs a kick in the cunt to get a wriggle out of her during sex.
 

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It's totally unnecessary and quite sad that you feel this way. You're more or less dead on the average in length - just about all the studies that don't have some fatal flaw, such as self-measurement in Kinsey's, say something like 5.5 BPEL or a couple of millimetres larger (which is neither here nor there) is average. According to these sexperts many men have penises smaller than that;

YouTube - How Big is a Big Penis?

(They seem to be talking NBPEL)


I'm not surprised you feel inadequate, given the nonsense that is often talked about the number of freakishly large dicks to be found in the general population - not least on here. Sizes are often inflated as if large dicks are commonplace - absolute nonsense about Lexington Steele being 11", or this or that celebrity being 9" seems to be taken as gospel.

In reality relatively few men are significantly larger than average and very, very few guys are what most would call huge. IIRC the statistics from reputable studies show that there probably aren't more than a few thousand guys walking around with true 10" dicks in the entire United States.

Before I get flamed, I'm not saying that any members (no pun intended) claiming to have a huge dick are lying (although I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that some might be). However this site is by definition unrepresentative. I'm not aware of any other forums like this, so I assume that many of the endowed guys with internet access in the entire world will be here. That tends to skew reality somewhat.

If you are too small to satisfy a woman, then so are most of the male population on the entire planet. If that's true, then evolution (or the Lord if you're a Creationist) has messed up big time.

I think not.
 
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If you are too small to satisfy a woman, then so are most of the male population on the entire planet.

It is an apparent anomaly though in surveys, when you see c. 90% of women saying that they are sexually satisfied and then other surveys saying that the ideal penis size is around two inches in length and one in girth above the average. This equates to nearly double the volume btw.

I suppose the logical conclusion is that men don't have to have the "ideal" penis size for their partners to be satisfied. I think that the problem for a lot of guys is that they want their partner to be more than satisfied, and they think that an "ideal" sized penis will help achieve this. If that is the case, then they should read FancyPants' excellent post above.
 

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Like Tilman wisely suggested, can't we all just get along?
Studlymcfudly, chill out man. There are better ways to ask and remember, the folks on this forum most often than not, actually offer useful advice.
 

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It is small, im not gonna lie. But like some other posters said, there is other ways to make her orgasm. Not just penetration. Experiment.
 

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You know men. They fucking think all women are liars. As a woman, I can't be trusted to tell you anything useful, so I'll move along.

it's actually pretty fair to say that a woman (when she is your girlfriend) will lie to make you feel better
I'm nto saying that's what is happening but you act like he said if it has tits it's lieing and it just didn't go down that way reguardless of how sensitive you may be
 

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it's actually pretty fair to say that a woman (when she is your girlfriend) will lie to make you feel better
I'm nto saying that's what is happening but you act like he said if it has tits it's lieing and it just didn't go down that way reguardless of how sensitive you may be
Boyfriends do that too. Drives me nuts! We can tell.