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So the girl I've been with is extremely beautiful and it seems every time we've had sex I've came much too soon. After the first time it happened, it just made me self-conscious and worried about it happening, which then stresses me out.

Its never happened before with any other girl, I mean I've usually been able to hold it back and then just keep going for longer, but with her its like no matter what, I cum too soon.

Except for last night, I came once and then we went at it again and that time was like normal and I lasted.

I'm not sure if its because shes so beautiful and sexy that it turns me on to a really high level, stress from finals coming up, and the added stress about worrying about not cumming too soon -_-.

Bah, iuno what to do
 

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Yea, I guess I'm just adding more pressure to myself than needed.

She doesn't seem to mind and before she said she likes when I cum, but its still frustrating as can be for me.
 

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Yea, I guess I'm just adding more pressure to myself than needed.

She doesn't seem to mind and before she said she likes when I cum, but its still frustrating as can be for me.

It happens... you could jerk off before you see her...that way when you're ready to go again ...you will just last longer to begin with. :) It's the anticipation thats getting to you.
 

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Ya it really is the anticipation, I can feel it building every time.

As far as the numbing condoms and all that, I actually wanna be able to feel sex :p. I tried one of those just jerking it one time and I couldnt even feel my dick.

I think I just need to jerk it out before going to her place or letting her do that for me. 'Cause after I came and we went again I was fine.
 

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When I'm close to cumming and want to hold off, I stop moving and do some kegels, and it seems to help in most cases. Not in every case, but generally. Might want to try it and see.
 

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Better simply to accept the fact that you often come quickly the first time, but you are highly sexed enough to keep going. The second one usually takes longer but can be just as intense.