It was very much the same for us at first. I worried, cos even with lube my tightness hurt him, though the chafing pain we both had was certainly contributed to by the frequency of the activity. :biggrin1:
Still, depth still causes some very occasional instances of very very diluted blood spotting, though that too is well worth it.:tongue:
Now, while certainly still tight, there's not the skin chafing as frequently. He was never worried I was rejecting his penis, but I was sure worried it would continue to hurt and such lovely activity would be curtailed!! Lordy I am walking on sunshine that didnt happen!
Time, patience, lots of love and enjoyment of every aspect of lovemaking has brought us to far greater satisfaction than I ever imagined.
Good luck, BedheadRed and eissua have given excellent tips.