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I started off as a top cause the idea of someone fucking me when I was a kid was embarrassing. Men shouldn't get fucked! Went slightly versatile when in a relationship cause was comfortable trying new things and he was a ver bottom. Was single for awhile therefore hooking up had no expectations of what I should be. So I tried bottoming a lot more and got used to it. Now Im a bottom mostly who tops occasionally. I just love the feeling of getting pounded. Nothing gets me harder than the thought or feeling on a dick. Cumming with a big dick inside me is just heavenly. And feeling and watching someone get off on my holes is the biggest turn on. Completely comfortable with being me now!
Thanks for your reply,sounds like people's preference is fluid, depending on the partner or circumstances.
 
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I fetishize equality and thus am vers and an ideal hookup involves flip fucking. It doesn’t have to be a lot of fucking, but I really love penetrating and being penetrated by a guy (or guys). Flip fucking feels so masculine and validating. It’s the kind of acceptance and bonding that I find hard to achieve otherwise. The best is breeding each other.

I’m happy to fuck a total bottom at sex party, but for one-on-one hookups and small group, I prefer vers guys.
This is my favorite activity but few guys can stay erect. The solution is for me to top first then bottom and cum again. Lots of fun.
 
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This is my favorite activity but few guys can stay erect. The solution is for me to top first then bottom and cum again. Lots of fun.
Have you ever thought about a threesome,or specifically the "meat" in a sandwich? You could satisfy two things at once,penetrating and being penetrated at the same time. I realize that may already be covered in another thread, but it's worth discussing. Thanks for your reply. BTW, that's also a fantasy of mine, IMHO,it would be hot as a mmf or mmm. Thoughts?
 
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Have you ever thought about a threesome,or specifically the "meat" in a sandwich? You could satisfy two things at once,penetrating and being penetrated at the same time. I realize that may already be covered in another thread, but it's worth discussing. Thanks for your reply. BTW, that's also a fantasy of mine, IMHO,it would be hot as a mmf or mmm. Thoughts?
That’s my favorite position.
 
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Have you ever thought about a threesome,or specifically the "meat" in a sandwich? You could satisfy two things at once,penetrating and being penetrated at the same time. I realize that may already be covered in another thread, but it's worth discussing. Thanks for your reply. BTW, that's also a fantasy of mine, IMHO,it would be hot as a mmf or mmm. Thoughts?
This is a different situation, and no, I am not interested in a threesome. Being versatile with one guy implies a desire to have sex accordingly, without a third person. Your ideas are good, but they just don't apply to me as this would not satisfy my interest in one person.
 
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This is a different situation, and no, I am not interested in a threesome. Being versatile with one guy implies a desire to have sex accordingly, without a third person. Your ideas are good, but they just don't apply to me as this would not satisfy my interest in one person.
Good to know. Just thought I'd give a suggestion. Everyone has different ideas,glad that you're honest,as everyone should be.
 
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That’s my favorite position.
If you don't mind,tell me more,all the mouth watering details. It's something that I will probably never experience,either a mmf or a mmm. How was your first time. You can DM me on my profile if you prefer.
 

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If you don't mind,tell me more,all the mouth watering details. It's something that I will probably never experience,either a mmf or a mmm. How was your first time. You can DM me on my profile if you prefer.
I don’t actually remember my first time, but it’s always something I suggest when I’m in a threeway or group.

Getting fucked while fucking has two components: the physical and the emotional. Topping and bottom both feel great so combining them is even better. But for me, the best part is emotional and psychological as it such a perfect expression of male bonding. Like many gay men, I feel that I carry around a perpetual longing for male bonding that can rarely be fulfilled. The closest I can get is casual groups with relative strangers. Fucking a guy with a dick in my ass is the closest thing I’ve found to feeling truly accepted and being “just one of the guys.” It’s even better when we each take turns being in the middle, but this is rare as one of the guys is often a total bottom that only wants to get fucked.
 
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I really appreciate and like your answer. I'm a physical type of guy. I love the orgasm feelings and it's the culmination of getting to orgasm,the build up to it and then the orgasm that I crave. I'm sure that the feeling of a threesome whether MMM or MMF is addictive and mind-blowing. Being a witness to it in porn really turns me on. I can't even imagine experiencing it in real life! I imagine that if I did, that I'd want to do that almost exclusively. But then flip fucking with a buddy and then flip fucking in that position,WOW. You've made my day,now my cock is leaking precum like crazy . Thanks again. This should be a thread, I'd love to hear descriptions and detail.
 
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I started off as a top cause the idea of someone fucking me when I was a kid was embarrassing. Men shouldn't get fucked! Went slightly versatile when in a relationship cause was comfortable trying new things and he was a ver bottom. Was single for awhile therefore hooking up had no expectations of what I should be. So I tried bottoming a lot more and got used to it. Now Im a bottom mostly who tops occasionally. I just love the feeling of getting pounded. Nothing gets me harder than the thought or feeling on a dick. Cumming with a big dick inside me is just heavenly. And feeling and watching someone get off on my holes is the biggest turn on. Completely comfortable with being me now!
This is what I like to read, anyone else out there willing to contribute? I'd especially like to hear from the more experienced mature men in their 50's-70's and up. Love to hear from you.
 
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This is what I like to read, anyone else out there willing to contribute? I'd especially like to hear from the more experienced mature men in their 50's-70's and up. Love to hear from you.
Okay, anyone else have something to say or comment. I'm ready to listen.!!
 
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I am a total top.

My experience is a little different, in that I came out later than most gay men today. I knew I liked men starting at puberty, and always found myself far more attracted to the male physique, etc. I lived a bit of a dichotomy, because despite being attracted to men from early in life, I grew up in a very religious, conservative environment that simply didn’t allow acknowledge being gay as an option. I was a very sexual person and always horny as a teen, but in addition to being gay, that same conservative, religious environment was sexually repressed in general, so the whole topic of sex was a bit taboo.

As a teen, I jacked off a lot and would occasionally experiment with anal penetration using objects. I really enjoyed the experience and can understand how bottoms find the experience pleasurable, but it was pretty infrequent and not anything I explored much. As I grew up, I would occasionally jack off with male friends and found any (limited) sexual exposure to other guys incredibly exciting, but everyone I knew was straight, so it never went beyond that. I dated women and fucked some of them.

When I finally had my first sexual experience with a guy in my 30s, I had spent a lot of time in life growing into what were traditionally “male” roles, and I had never really wrapped my head around the idea of being a receptive partner. In fact, when I started dating my first boyfriend (who was a total bottom), on our third or fourth date, after we’d hooked up a few times I looked up how to douche and prepared myself, because I thought you were expected to “take turns”. I told him I thought bottoms were taking dick “to be nice” and that I was being selfish if I didn’t offer to let him fuck me! :joy: I remember him cracking up and telling me that he bottomed because he liked it, in fact he LOVED it. It blew my mind wide open when I realized that people enjoyed getting fucked. As I eased into gay culture, learning about the prevalence of bottoms and complaints of there being too many of them astonished me. I had always heard “getting fucked” as such a pejorative, finding out people liked it often made me chuckle at the irony. I was so inexperienced and green, it’s funny thinking back on it now.

As I continued to date, I stuck with topping and sought out bottoms to be with, because I just loved fucking. In my mind (just in my head - much love to my bottoms out there!), I was a man, and I was built to fuck! My dick was there to penetrate others and I absolutely loved doing it. I tried bottoming a few times with a couple different people, and as an adult, it just didn’t take for me. I found it painful and uncomfortable as opposed to the pleasure I found with my experimentation as a teen. I loved being dominant and actually really hated the idea of losing “control” by bottoming. I like to “take care” of my bottoms, and I actually get super turned on by giving pleasure, even more than receiving it (much like many of the bottoms here have described). I just derive joy from delivering that pleasure by making sure my bottoms feel completely and utterly satisfied. I find it so hot when I bottom begs for my dick or thanks me for fucking them, or let’s me hold them very close and fuck them sensually, because I feel like I have fulfilled my responsibility of caring for, protecting and providing for their needs. I actually kind of made it a challenge for myself to meet guys who were verse, and see if I could fuck them well enough that they only wanted to bottom with me. It turned me on to a bottom creator and find new ways to bring a bottom to ecstasy, despite the fact I was ramming my cock into them - something that to me, and objectively, seemed like it should be miserable.

Fast forward to today, and I’m happily married (to a man). When my husband and I first started dating, he very much considered himself vers and used to tell me the first week or two, that I “would bottom next time”. Didn’t take long before he too turned into a total bottom, and now I don’t even think he could top if he wanted to. I don’t think he would even be able to stay hard, maybe not even get hard. I’m still super horny all the time, and want to have sex more than he wishes I would, but we have fully settled into a fully top/bottom marriage, and we are both super happy with it. In fact, I’ve heard him say when he’s drunk and his inhibitions have lowered a bit, how much he loves everything about bottoming and wouldn’t want anything different. This turns me on even more, as it fulfills my desire to be that dominant, providing, protecting, nurturing top by fucking him senseless. He almost always cums before I do, and when he doesn’t, I don’t even tell him I’ve cummed so that he can feel like he’s being pleasured first.

Our marriage is very equal and certainly more equitable than the traditional male/female relationships I know, but I will say there is a bit of a top/bottom role that manifests itself as a male/female dynamic. Whenever he wants me to do something around the house, carry something heavy, etc., he tells me “You have to do it, because you’re the top” jokingly, of course. I am not saying any of our dynamic is right or wrong. I know some of it may sound outdated or outmoded, and I am definitely not trying to sound like a Neanderthal. I am just sharing what works for us, and how I feel like our sexual roles, does spill over into our nonsexual dynamics. To me, it’s interested from a sociological and anthropological perspective, as I feel the dynamics in same sex relationships are just starting to be studied.

Anyway, long answer to a short question. I’m a total top, and that’s why. :)
 

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I'm vers, but it often depends on the connection with the certain guy. like @Thickstick just described how his husband was vers but morphed into a total bottom for him, the same would likely happen with me if I was with a total top, and I would probably still be pleased. The same if I was with a total bottom. If I had to only assume one role, I think I'd still be sexually satisfied if the connection was right.

I have friendships where I'm the top. I do love topping and in those relationships I find myself pretty obsessed with their ass. and a willing bottom is very nice, especially if I'm spending a lot of time with them and can go again and again, and they seem to get happier and happier with each time I breed them within a day, and they talk about how impressed they are with my libido.

With random hookups I really only bottom because I find it difficult to become fully erect for strangers due to anxiety. However if I know you and am comfortable around you and nothing's being rushed, it is easy for me to get hard.

sometimes though I have to take a break from bottoming because I occasionally suffer from hemorrhoids. If I'm with a top during one of these times they seldom complain because I've been told I'm very good at providing oral.
 
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I've always been the type of guy who goes with the flow and loves to make sure everybody is having a good time. When I was younger, that meant I would be whatever was needed, top, versatile or bottom. But then I met my 1st boyfriend and he was a top. For the next 7 years, I bottomed for him and I enjoyed it. When we broke up, he decided he was versatile. So for the next few years, we would flip fuck, we would fuck each other each time.

The next 3 boyfriends I had, were all versatile, but each one was more top than bottom. But while I was with the last one, I started becoming more bottom. Partly because he was an excellent top and I enjoyed it too much. But I was put on a lot of high blood pressure medicine and I developed ED. The blood pressure medicine has been cut back, the ED is mostly gone, but I am strictly bottom now.
 
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Great reply. You might want to consider getting back into a versatile attitude. Since your Ed issues seem to have subsided. Don't limit yourself to one side of sex, IMHO, experience both sides of sex ,top and bottom. I have a thread on Swedish flower pollen. Read it and try it out,, people seem to ignore my experience with it,but you'll be amazed. Thanks again for replying.
 

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I’m vers because I’m just turned on by both. I think sex is really fun and enjoyable so I want to be able to go with the flow in any situation. I may not be the best bottom or the most ideal bottom, but I still enjoy it. I don’t always have the time or patience to prep to bottom. Also, it seems like bottoms out number tops, so I probably top more. And many bottoms just want to get fuck, so when tops have so many bottom options, it’s hard to land a top for a hook up. And I understand. I get the chance to fuck some really hot dudes because I’m willing to top. My bottoms are like 8s, 9s, and 10s. My tops are like 4s, 5s, and 6s.
 
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I'm vers, but it often depends on the connection with the certain guy. like @Thickstick just described how his husband was vers but morphed into a total bottom for him, the same would likely happen with me if I was with a total top, and I would probably still be pleased. The same if I was with a total bottom. If I had to only assume one role, I think I'd still be sexually satisfied if the connection was right.

I have friendships where I'm the top. I do love topping and in those relationships I find myself pretty obsessed with their ass. and a willing bottom is very nice, especially if I'm spending a lot of time with them and can go again and again, and they seem to get happier and happier with each time I breed them within a day, and they talk about how impressed they are with my libido.

With random hookups I really only bottom because I find it difficult to become fully erect for strangers due to anxiety. However if I know you and am comfortable around you and nothing's being rushed, it is easy for me to get hard.

sometimes though I have to take a break from bottoming because I occasionally suffer from hemorrhoids. If I'm with a top during one of these times they seldom complain because I've been told I'm very good at providing oral.
That's a very interesting response. IMHO,you like the feelings of both positions. This next thing I'm bringing up isn't an advertisement,but my accidental reaction to a supplement for my prostate cancer. Look up my thread on Swedish flower pollen. Give it a try,and hope that you have a good experience with it.
I am a total top.

My experience is a little different, in that I came out later than most gay men today. I knew I liked men starting at puberty, and always found myself far more attracted to the male physique, etc. I lived a bit of a dichotomy, because despite being attracted to men from early in life, I grew up in a very religious, conservative environment that simply didn’t allow acknowledge being gay as an option. I was a very sexual person and always horny as a teen, but in addition to being gay, that same conservative, religious environment was sexually repressed in general, so the whole topic of sex was a bit taboo.

As a teen, I jacked off a lot and would occasionally experiment with anal penetration using objects. I really enjoyed the experience and can understand how bottoms find the experience pleasurable, but it was pretty infrequent and not anything I explored much. As I grew up, I would occasionally jack off with male friends and found any (limited) sexual exposure to other guys incredibly exciting, but everyone I knew was straight, so it never went beyond that. I dated women and fucked some of them.

When I finally had my first sexual experience with a guy in my 30s, I had spent a lot of time in life growing into what were traditionally “male” roles, and I had never really wrapped my head around the idea of being a receptive partner. In fact, when I started dating my first boyfriend (who was a total bottom), on our third or fourth date, after we’d hooked up a few times I looked up how to douche and prepared myself, because I thought you were expected to “take turns”. I told him I thought bottoms were taking dick “to be nice” and that I was being selfish if I didn’t offer to let him fuck me! :joy: I remember him cracking up and telling me that he bottomed because he liked it, in fact he LOVED it. It blew my mind wide open when I realized that people enjoyed getting fucked. As I eased into gay culture, learning about the prevalence of bottoms and complaints of there being too many of them astonished me. I had always heard “getting fucked” as such a pejorative, finding out people liked it often made me chuckle at the irony. I was so inexperienced and green, it’s funny thinking back on it now.

As I continued to date, I stuck with topping and sought out bottoms to be with, because I just loved fucking. In my mind (just in my head - much love to my bottoms out there!), I was a man, and I was built to fuck! My dick was there to penetrate others and I absolutely loved doing it. I tried bottoming a few times with a couple different people, and as an adult, it just didn’t take for me. I found it painful and uncomfortable as opposed to the pleasure I found with my experimentation as a teen. I loved being dominant and actually really hated the idea of losing “control” by bottoming. I like to “take care” of my bottoms, and I actually get super turned on by giving pleasure, even more than receiving it (much like many of the bottoms here have described). I just derive joy from delivering that pleasure by making sure my bottoms feel completely and utterly satisfied. I find it so hot when I bottom begs for my dick or thanks me for fucking them, or let’s me hold them very close and fuck them sensually, because I feel like I have fulfilled my responsibility of caring for, protecting and providing for their needs. I actually kind of made it a challenge for myself to meet guys who were verse, and see if I could fuck them well enough that they only wanted to bottom with me. It turned me on to a bottom creator and find new ways to bring a bottom to ecstasy, despite the fact I was ramming my cock into them - something that to me, and objectively, seemed like it should be miserable.

Fast forward to today, and I’m happily married (to a man). When my husband and I first started dating, he very much considered himself vers and used to tell me the first week or two, that I “would bottom next time”. Didn’t take long before he too turned into a total bottom, and now I don’t even think he could top if he wanted to. I don’t think he would even be able to stay hard, maybe not even get hard. I’m still super horny all the time, and want to have sex more than he wishes I would, but we have fully settled into a fully top/bottom marriage, and we are both super happy with it. In fact, I’ve heard him say when he’s drunk and his inhibitions have lowered a bit, how much he loves everything about bottoming and wouldn’t want anything different. This turns me on even more, as it fulfills my desire to be that dominant, providing, protecting, nurturing top by fucking him senseless. He almost always cums before I do, and when he doesn’t, I don’t even tell him I’ve cummed so that he can feel like he’s being pleasured first.

Our marriage is very equal and certainly more equitable than the traditional male/female relationships I know, but I will say there is a bit of a top/bottom role that manifests itself as a male/female dynamic. Whenever he wants me to do something around the house, carry something heavy, etc., he tells me “You have to do it, because you’re the top” jokingly, of course. I am not saying any of our dynamic is right or wrong. I know some of it may sound outdated or outmoded, and I am definitely not trying to sound like a Neanderthal. I am just sharing what works for us, and how I feel like our sexual roles, does spill over into our nonsexual dynamics. To me, it’s interested from a sociological and anthropological perspective, as I feel the dynamics in same sex relationships are just starting to be studied.

Anyway, long answer to a short question. I’m a total top, and that’s why. :)
Wow,a very descriptive answer,and not long at all. You've described yourself very well.
I am a total top.

My experience is a little different, in that I came out later than most gay men today. I knew I liked men starting at puberty, and always found myself far more attracted to the male physique, etc. I lived a bit of a dichotomy, because despite being attracted to men from early in life, I grew up in a very religious, conservative environment that simply didn’t allow acknowledge being gay as an option. I was a very sexual person and always horny as a teen, but in addition to being gay, that same conservative, religious environment was sexually repressed in general, so the whole topic of sex was a bit taboo.

As a teen, I jacked off a lot and would occasionally experiment with anal penetration using objects. I really enjoyed the experience and can understand how bottoms find the experience pleasurable, but it was pretty infrequent and not anything I explored much. As I grew up, I would occasionally jack off with male friends and found any (limited) sexual exposure to other guys incredibly exciting, but everyone I knew was straight, so it never went beyond that. I dated women and fucked some of them.

When I finally had my first sexual experience with a guy in my 30s, I had spent a lot of time in life growing into what were traditionally “male” roles, and I had never really wrapped my head around the idea of being a receptive partner. In fact, when I started dating my first boyfriend (who was a total bottom), on our third or fourth date, after we’d hooked up a few times I looked up how to douche and prepared myself, because I thought you were expected to “take turns”. I told him I thought bottoms were taking dick “to be nice” and that I was being selfish if I didn’t offer to let him fuck me! :joy: I remember him cracking up and telling me that he bottomed because he liked it, in fact he LOVED it. It blew my mind wide open when I realized that people enjoyed getting fucked. As I eased into gay culture, learning about the prevalence of bottoms and complaints of there being too many of them astonished me. I had always heard “getting fucked” as such a pejorative, finding out people liked it often made me chuckle at the irony. I was so inexperienced and green, it’s funny thinking back on it now.

As I continued to date, I stuck with topping and sought out bottoms to be with, because I just loved fucking. In my mind (just in my head - much love to my bottoms out there!), I was a man, and I was built to fuck! My dick was there to penetrate others and I absolutely loved doing it. I tried bottoming a few times with a couple different people, and as an adult, it just didn’t take for me. I found it painful and uncomfortable as opposed to the pleasure I found with my experimentation as a teen. I loved being dominant and actually really hated the idea of losing “control” by bottoming. I like to “take care” of my bottoms, and I actually get super turned on by giving pleasure, even more than receiving it (much like many of the bottoms here have described). I just derive joy from delivering that pleasure by making sure my bottoms feel completely and utterly satisfied. I find it so hot when I bottom begs for my dick or thanks me for fucking them, or let’s me hold them very close and fuck them sensually, because I feel like I have fulfilled my responsibility of caring for, protecting and providing for their needs. I actually kind of made it a challenge for myself to meet guys who were verse, and see if I could fuck them well enough that they only wanted to bottom with me. It turned me on to a bottom creator and find new ways to bring a bottom to ecstasy, despite the fact I was ramming my cock into them - something that to me, and objectively, seemed like it should be miserable.

Fast forward to today, and I’m happily married (to a man). When my husband and I first started dating, he very much considered himself vers and used to tell me the first week or two, that I “would bottom next time”. Didn’t take long before he too turned into a total bottom, and now I don’t even think he could top if he wanted to. I don’t think he would even be able to stay hard, maybe not even get hard. I’m still super horny all the time, and want to have sex more than he wishes I would, but we have fully settled into a fully top/bottom marriage, and we are both super happy with it. In fact, I’ve heard him say when he’s drunk and his inhibitions have lowered a bit, how much he loves everything about bottoming and wouldn’t want anything different. This turns me on even more, as it fulfills my desire to be that dominant, providing, protecting, nurturing top by fucking him senseless. He almost always cums before I do, and when he doesn’t, I don’t even tell him I’ve cummed so that he can feel like he’s being pleasured first.

Our marriage is very equal and certainly more equitable than the traditional male/female relationships I know, but I will say there is a bit of a top/bottom role that manifests itself as a male/female dynamic. Whenever he wants me to do something around the house, carry something heavy, etc., he tells me “You have to do it, because you’re the top” jokingly, of course. I am not saying any of our dynamic is right or wrong. I know some of it may sound outdated or outmoded, and I am definitely not trying to sound like a Neanderthal. I am just sharing what works for us, and how I feel like our sexual roles, does spill over into our nonsexual dynamics. To me, it’s interested from a sociological and anthropological perspective, as I feel the dynamics in same sex relationships are just starting to be studied.

Anyway, long answer to a short question. I’m a total top, and that’s why. :)
A very detailed description of your life,and your experience as a top. Great that you're in a committed relationship. Not something that I would take as a "mission" in life,but IMHO you should try and again feel the bottoms perspective, especially now that you're in a relationship. As I have promoted , I have a thread about Swedish flower pollen,might be good for anyone ,top or bottom. Give it a try. And your reply wasn't too long,it was very interesting. I'm surprised at the candor of replies to this thread. To those reading, please continue to reply. I may not get back to you soon,but I enjoy reading about the replies.
I’m vers because I’m just turned on by both. I think sex is really fun and enjoyable so I want to be able to go with the flow in any situation. I may not be the best bottom or the most ideal bottom, but I still enjoy it. I don’t always have the time or patience to prep to bottom. Also, it seems like bottoms out number tops, so I probably top more. And many bottoms just want to get fuck, so when tops have so many bottom options, it’s hard to land a top for a hook up. And I understand. I get the chance to fuck some really hot dudes because I’m willing to top. My bottoms are like 8s, 9s, and 10s. My tops are like 4s, 5s, and 6s.
I totally understand, while I'm curious,it doesn't mean I wouldn't engage in it. I too love sex, even at my age,if the possibility of it arise every day and maybe twice a day, I'd go for it!! I'm 72 almost,73. I love foreplay,but the act itself,and the build up to orgasm, and the orgasm is addictive. Once you experience it,you never get tired of it! I could go on,but you get the idea! Thanks for your reply.
 

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That's a very interesting response. IMHO,you like the feelings of both positions. This next thing I'm bringing up isn't an advertisement,but my accidental reaction to a supplement for my prostate cancer. Look up my thread on Swedish flower pollen. Give it a try,and hope that you have a good experience with it.
well i definitely like both. I'm equally phallic and anal. As for Swedish Flower Pollen, I've tried it a handful of times. I'm pretty fascinated by botanical sources of testosterone and I give anything a try. I must say I didn't get much from Swedish Flower Pollen; i was frustrated by it because it makes me need to pee a lot. What I really like is Pine Pollen, that's my favorite, I can eat as much as I want. I also really enjoy Ashwaganda. Pine Pollen and Ashwaganda are two natural sources of testosterone i trust.
 
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well i definitely like both. I'm equally phallic and anal. As for Swedish Flower Pollen, I've tried it a handful of times. I'm pretty fascinated by botanical sources of testosterone and I give anything a try. I must say I didn't get much from Swedish Flower Pollen; i was frustrated by it because it makes me need to pee a lot. What I really like is Pine Pollen, that's my favorite, I can eat as much as I want. I also really enjoy Ashwaganda. Pine Pollen and Ashwaganda are two natural sources of testosterone i trust.
I have never tried those before. The Swedish flower pollen is mainly a supplement that has the same reaction to Flomax, medicine that helps with prostatitis,where the prostate is enlarged and you have trouble urinating. Also for your immune system. You are lucky to enjoy your prostate stimulation through anal sex ,and your penis through fucking. Myself,my fantasy would be to be the meat in a sandwich,fucked while fucking. I'd like to try both male and female. But it's not going to happen. I envy you. Thanks for the conversation.
 
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