Top, Bottom or Vers?
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Vers. I seem to be equally genital and anal in my fixations.
it has mostly depended on the connection i have with a specific partner what role I'm going to take. I don't think I've ever had a relationship with another true vers; I've always just adapted to whoever I'm with. I only bottom for quick hookups though, i can't seem to top someone I don't know very well.
it has mostly depended on the connection i have with a specific partner what role I'm going to take. I don't think I've ever had a relationship with another true vers; I've always just adapted to whoever I'm with. I only bottom for quick hookups though, i can't seem to top someone I don't know very well.
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For many years I was a bottom … maybe topped couple guys but still remained a bottom.. plus was with couple girls ..
It was when I dated this guy when I was 25 .. it was my birthday and everyone met at this pizza place where had it at..
This guy comes in to pick up his order and he saw my grandmother holding me .. as everyone gave me a birthday whipping.. I wouldn’t struggle to get away as I’d be afraid of hurting her.. and the family and friends knew that..
The guys stood there smiling and laughing and my mom was like.. come on and join us .. next thing I know he was there smacking my ass ..
Once done I was let go and my ass was on fire .. anyhow he tells me his name Keith . And he asked if that happened all the time.. I said only if my grandmother gets hold of me..
I walked out to his car with him .. we talking and he wrote his number down said if I needed help cooling it off give him a call..
Anyhow skip to the sex stuff.. he knew I was bottom he said he was a top and .. one night he asked if I ever thought about topping I said not really .. then he said he wanted to try bottoming .. so I do anything to please a guy.. but try to assure him he may not want my dick to be his first.. he said it’s ok if it’s too much he’d tell me..
Of course he made sounds and kind of got loud as I went in.. thank god I don’t have any neighbors to close by..
He took it and I barely fucked him until I came …. It was that night I became a versatile guy ..
But only to guys wanting topped.. I try to keep guys that only top but learn as time goes by guys are becoming more bisexual. Or versatile
It was when I dated this guy when I was 25 .. it was my birthday and everyone met at this pizza place where had it at..
This guy comes in to pick up his order and he saw my grandmother holding me .. as everyone gave me a birthday whipping.. I wouldn’t struggle to get away as I’d be afraid of hurting her.. and the family and friends knew that..
The guys stood there smiling and laughing and my mom was like.. come on and join us .. next thing I know he was there smacking my ass ..
Once done I was let go and my ass was on fire .. anyhow he tells me his name Keith . And he asked if that happened all the time.. I said only if my grandmother gets hold of me..
I walked out to his car with him .. we talking and he wrote his number down said if I needed help cooling it off give him a call..
Anyhow skip to the sex stuff.. he knew I was bottom he said he was a top and .. one night he asked if I ever thought about topping I said not really .. then he said he wanted to try bottoming .. so I do anything to please a guy.. but try to assure him he may not want my dick to be his first.. he said it’s ok if it’s too much he’d tell me..
Of course he made sounds and kind of got loud as I went in.. thank god I don’t have any neighbors to close by..
He took it and I barely fucked him until I came …. It was that night I became a versatile guy ..
But only to guys wanting topped.. I try to keep guys that only top but learn as time goes by guys are becoming more bisexual. Or versatile
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If I am goi g go get to know someone.. we have to have same interests in the bedroom as well as out of it..
If I’m a bottom and find out if he’s a bottom after dating a while then. It’s kind of wasted time..
So I find out within a date or two what he likes doing and doesn’t so I know I’ll get my satisfaction. And so will him
If I’m a bottom and find out if he’s a bottom after dating a while then. It’s kind of wasted time..
So I find out within a date or two what he likes doing and doesn’t so I know I’ll get my satisfaction. And so will him
I haven’t gotten to do this yet. It’s a bucket list item!
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I guess technically vers but tend to bottom like 95% of the time just because I don't trust guys on Grindr to clean themselves before meeting lmao
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Personally, I classify myself as 97.6% bottom, the other little bit is for the possible request of my generally top boyfriend wanting to get fucked on a rare occasion.
I haven't fucked anyone in eons.
Note: you're missing "Side" in your list of options.
I haven't fucked anyone in eons.
Note: you're missing "Side" in your list of options.
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I'm pretty much a total bottom. I was just a cock sucker for many years and considered myself vers until I started experimenting with anal. I never thought I'd like it for some reason and was scared to try, but when I finally did I fell in love with it and sex has never been better. I absolutely love getting fucked and being submissive to a horny top.
I'm 100% bottom. I never really decided it, it has just been obvious ever since I started exploring my sexuality. I've always felt quite submissive in sex and can't imagine anything else than submitting to a dominant top and let him use me. Love being naked on my knees in front of a horny guy waiting what comes next.
In that pic? #1 if I had my druthers, lol.
Bottom...like "never gotten head, been jerked off, or topped anyone in my entire life" bottom lol
Total vers. Prefer flip fucking and love having my dick in a hole with one in my ass at the same time.
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I am basically a verse top. I don't really care for bottoming at all but I will on the rare occasion if the guy is hot enough (and strictly top).
Or if I am in a romantic relationship I expect part of a partnership is compromise and push-and-pull so I would bottom for my bf/husband off and on to keep things interesting
Or if I am in a romantic relationship I expect part of a partnership is compromise and push-and-pull so I would bottom for my bf/husband off and on to keep things interesting
Bottom... pretty much totally now. I actually started off as a top and didn't bottom for many years. But watching all the people I fucked enjoy themselves so much made me want to at least try it. While in a LTR we flipped several times and I guess I became Ver at that point.
Not sure why but when I became single again I just preferred hooking up with tops over bottoms. I also think the kind of guys I liked were almost always tops in my area. Or were similar to me when I started of not wanting to get fucked cause it was too girly.
As time passed and got used to bottoming I realized that is what I preferred. Guys would always comment how rock hard I was and that really turned them on. It is still kind of strange to me as well that I get so bricked since I read so many comments about people going soft when getting fucked. Nothing makes me harder than getting fucked. Not porn, nor oral not making out... nothing. And I cum so easily getting fucked. Such a great feeling!
I would have no problem topping if I felt like it but I don't lol.
Not sure why but when I became single again I just preferred hooking up with tops over bottoms. I also think the kind of guys I liked were almost always tops in my area. Or were similar to me when I started of not wanting to get fucked cause it was too girly.
As time passed and got used to bottoming I realized that is what I preferred. Guys would always comment how rock hard I was and that really turned them on. It is still kind of strange to me as well that I get so bricked since I read so many comments about people going soft when getting fucked. Nothing makes me harder than getting fucked. Not porn, nor oral not making out... nothing. And I cum so easily getting fucked. Such a great feeling!
I would have no problem topping if I felt like it but I don't lol.
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1 : been in this situation lots of times in 3sums
???
the guys you fuck with become more bisexual? so they get more into women overtime?
or are you wrongly mixing versatile with bisexual?
what is then a straight man who likes to get fucked by his wife with a strap on ???
I’m top but I want to be more vers. I just can’t seem to enjoy bottoming. Just doesn’t feel pleasant. Tried several dicks, several positions… Watching a guy top me turns me on, but the actual act isn’t enjoyable — unfortunately. I don’t mind topping though, but I’d imagine it would be nice to let someone else do the work once in a while haha.
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