Just as I wrote in one thread about hung guys having bottom time, I prefer being bottom. However, I didn't vote for "bottom" but for "versatile", and let me elaborate a bit why. Whenever I think about being dominated, I feel really turned on. The dominance which most people understand as humiliating another person is just a part of the whole image for me. In case of pure humiliation, I would like to be fucked in my ass gently at first, later being pounded as hard as the guy could pound me. In general, I would like to be treated like a male slut and called dirty names. As I wouldn't like to duplicate posts, here's the one from the aforementioned thread, containing more spicy details (
http://www.lpsg.org/132052-gay-hung-but-bottom.html#post2922973). The other part is dominance accompanied with care. By "care" I mean the guy to make me feel that he is the alpha male in our interactions, but at the same time care for my pleasure (even if it was driven from insulting, fucking me hard etc) while we would be having sex.
So everything that you've just read above is about how I would like it to be if I was the bottom. And how it would be if the roles were to be changed? Well in case of having sex with another guy, the only form of dominance I can imagine myself to be involved in would be forcing my cock down the guy's throat (and putting some pressure with my hands on his head) during the oral sex. Besides that, I have noticed that I have developed a fantasy involving oral sex with a female, fantasy which has just got stuck in my head. I would like to warn all the women here that it may be perceived as pretty downgrading for the girl/woman involved in it, but I would also like to clarify that it's JUST a fantasy, and that there are certainly some women who would like to be treated a bit rough to some extent.
So the very fantasy is about a girl/woman approaching me and telling me that, although she knows I'm gay, she adores my cock so much that she would like to have some fun with it (let's say she has peeked on me while I was masturbating or something, and thus she knows how endowed I am). Hearing that confession, I'm a bit shocked, but keen to fulfill her wish. So then she drops down on her knees, takes my cock and balls out of my pants, and starts worshiping it with respect and gratefulness for being allowed to have my cock in her mouth. We both get more and more warmed up in the whole process (she speeds up the sucking pace over time), and when I'm finally turned on and rock-hard, I grab her head by her hair and move it back and forth pretty fast and rough, fucking her skull down deep, just as if it was her ass. The extra things that would turn me on even more would be the nasty sounds of choking, and her saliva frothing from all the head fucking and leaking from her mouth. I would stop moving her head from time to time, tell her to look up at me, and spit at her face, continuing to fuck her afterwards with my spit still on her face. Also, I could take my cock out of her mouth from time to time, let her to gasp for some air, and slap her face all over with my cock while she would be gasping. After I would cum, shoving my cock as deep down her throat as possible, I would take it out of her mouth and she would lick my balls clean. As a form of relaxation for me after blasting a big load (I would probably be sitting or lying down comfortably already), I would order her to go down to my feet and worship them (massaging, licking them all over, sucking on my toes) until I would have enough.
As I had said before, I'm aware of all of this sounding pretty downgrading, but fulfilling this fantasy would be hell more than fucking awesome :biggrin1:
