Top or Bottom? Which do you choose?

Which do you prefer to do, top or bottom?

  • 1- I’m a clear top.

    Votes: 52 21.9%
  • 2- I do bottom, but I prefer being top.

    Votes: 41 17.3%
  • 3- I do both.

    Votes: 44 18.6%
  • 4- I do top, but I prefer being bottom.

    Votes: 49 20.7%
  • 5- I’m a clear bottom.

    Votes: 51 21.5%

  • Total voters
    237

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Quote;If I'm having sex with another man then I'm 100% bottom. If I'm doing the fucking I'd rather it be with a woman.
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I am very much the same!

If I'm with a guy I really have to be bottom. I'd rather he was doing all the fucking and I'd take it like a bitch (or be treated like his girl). I never have been that turned on by penetrating a man, but being his submissive is real hot.

But when it comes to women I do like to be a man. Although I would never rule out letting a girl totally dominate me in the bedroom.

I see it this way 'my cock is for the babes and my ass is for the studs, and as long as I'm getting fucked one way or the other I'm happy'.
 

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I am a total bottom and love it! I think I can count on the fingers of one hand how many times I've topped but you know what it just didn't do much for me.
 

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Although I would never rule out letting a girl totally dominate me in the bedroom.

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I used to have a GF that we would roleplay gender reversal. She put on this huge strapon and I'd do things like "giver her head" and of course, she fucked me every way silly with it. It was wierd, I was 32 and she was 19 when i had about a 6 month fling with her. She generally had total control over our relationship. It was cool being dominated by such a younger chick, and she was a real hottie to boot. In the end she dumped me for...a woman.
 

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Im vers. I have moods.

I was a total bottom for a few weeks but now Im back to being a total top even thinking about bottoming is a turn off right now. I used to be total top until I met people who did things v v well.
 

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Well I used to be a total top, both oral and anal. I like sucking cock well enough, and would do it if asked nicely. I also tried taking a dick up my ass. Didn't enjoy it at all. However, when I beat off to porn, I usually think about being the bottom guy, sometimes to a point that the next time I have sex, I try to get the other guy to top me, but when I'm finally in the moment, I don;t enjoy it at all, no matte how hot or how good the other guy is. So I answered #2. Am I making any sense?
 

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Vers bottom here..I Started out trying to be a top but most guys I fucked around with couldnt take my head or if they did they cried to take it out...so I let this one army guy plow my ass and the rest is history love to get fucked but will top the right guys ass
 

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4 for me
prefer/red bottoming altho
Top .. only by request' ha and it has to be a strong request
HandJob's (giving) is my Ultimate satisfaction.
-actually everythings non-existent right now ..
Love it
enz
 

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I really should have read this thread first before answering. o_O

I said I'm a bottom... but I like to be on the bottom. Girls complain I go too deep if I'm on top.

I wasn't aware top/bottom was a gay thing. In this instance, I'm definitely a neither. :tongue: