Top or Bottom

[FuzzyKen]

I am 100% top in this realm. I tried to bottom and I was never able to derive any pleasure from the act at any point and I tried it more than once. I love to top and I love to bring pleasure to my partner.

With regards to oral I do not for the most part enjoy the taste of semen. On this issue I keep trying with my partner on occasion. However my partner in life is my polar opposite and as a result things work just fine.

As has been said we do things based on our basic makeup. I think that there are aspects of this that may be genetic, but, I would not swear to it.

 

[fratpack]

I didn't really get it, and in some ways, I still don't. It's rare that I find asses attractive, but(t) every once in a while I see one that even I think, "Oh, I'd tap/top THAT!"

Funny but that is exactly what I say when I see your butt!

 

[novice_btm]

Funny but that is exactly what I say when I see your butt!

Look who's talking! Oh, and flattery will get you everywhere. :tongue:

 

[Countryguy63]

Top by default. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy it, but reading about all of the pleasurable experiences others are having, I would love to feel that myself. Just haven't been able to :frown1:

 

[Jaimdoggie]

I shall never be a bottom, voluntarily at least. I like being in charge, in control, or however you wish to term it. Be that with guys or girls. I knew from the day I first did it, when I was 11, that I was not cut out to be the bottom or sub, if you will, in a sexual relationship.

 

[Lex]

I shall never be a bottom, voluntarily at least. I like being in charge, in control, or however you wish to term it. Be that with guys or girls. I knew from the day I first did it, when I was 11, that I was not cut out to be the bottom or sub, if you will, in a sexual relationship.

Do you not realize that the bottom holds all the power and simply tranfers that authority to the top during sex? You really can't fuck someone unless they let you. The control that a top experiences in an temporary illusion created by the bottom. The bottom is allowing you to fuck and/or dominate him.

 

[rbkwp]

Agree'
Sphincter is a pretty powerful bossy muscley little prick huh'
enz
-plus .. i would never allow a cat in my room while i slept......

Just awoke to the sphincter of a medium sized cat being rubed along my forehead.
"Get the FUCK off of me Lionel!!!!!!!"
I was butt humped...
6:06 AM Aug 22nd from web

 

[Jaimdoggie]

I understand. I am just a controlling person that loves authority and illusions thereof.

 

[nowayzomg]

While it is very much a sexual thing of course, to me it is just as much a mental thing, if not more. I knew what I was when I was still a virgin and it hasn't changed.

 

[emo18]

Guess...

 

[lilbear]

I have tried to bottom in the past- never seemed to work for me. It was not at all pleasurable. I love to have my prostate fingered by someone that knows what they are doing. I do like to top every now and then but it is not my favorite activity.

 

[hawk132]

what's up with oral bottoms who don't want reciprocal gratification of any kind?

 

[nowayzomg]

what's up with oral bottoms who don't want reciprocal gratification of any kind?

What's wrong with that? :shocked1:

 

[hawk132]

nothing's wrong with it - I just don't understand.

 

[hiram]

Top with a woman.
Bottom with a guy.

Can't explain it, stopped trying to figure it out.

what's up with oral bottoms who don't want reciprocal gratification of any kind?

Thats me, again, cant explain it, just like to do it.

 

[tachyon]

Guess...

oh i know ;-)

 

[Maxime_]

I am definately top. When I have sex i am the very manly/raw guy,so it is more natural to me being top. I couldn't be bottom because I can't be penetrated without bleeding. It is a problem of anus. I think i will try to be bottom one day,with the right guy,but just as an experiment. I don't like the idea at all. I am also top when it comes to oral sex. I don't drive crazy for blowing,i'd rather get blown!

 

[ibostyle11]

I consider myself a full bottom.
My reasoning is this... Being done anally feels amazing so I want it if with a man. Also, giving head is a turn on for me. But if I want anal or head I can just get a girl can do that for me and I'll of course get some pussy as well out of it.

 

[Crex]

Before I started having anal sex, I considered myself to be a top. However, the first time I was penetrated by someone who took their time, went easy, and stimulated my prostate, I've considered myself a bottom. I've only topped a couple of times, and most of the time I cum way too quickly. Plus, as good as topping feels, nothing feels better than having that prostate massaged by a big headed dick and having a hands free orgasm!

 

[D_Passmoore Fearsomgas]

if i had to pick id be a top. bottom to me seem like the bitch..