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Uslidenme

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I have been 97% top in my life. The funny thing is I really enjoy being fucked but I enjoy giving my partner pleasure and most of the time they want to be fucked. But if I dont' get fucked well every once in a while then I loose interest all together. If I'm in one of those I need to be fucked moods I won't even get a hard on if the other person is a bottom only.
But unlike the comment above butts are a definate turnon for me. A hot ass and great legs get me everytime:)
 

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Bottoming is halted by logistics: nothing is getting in there. Too much history of hemorrhoids. And it's only recently that I learned to like topping, which is good, because I get a lot of requests.
 

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And then there's the part where prostate stimulation causes me to ejaculate without any orgasm sensation. No fair! It's like I have to wait until I can start over again so my brain gets an orgasm. No fun at all, except to get off on the novelty of it.
 

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Definately more bottom here, it just feels better for me. I LOVE to cum while a big dick is inside me. With my partner im strictly a bottom, he is an amazing top, nice big dick etc. However, we sometimes have 3 ways and the last 2 times he has had me and the 3rd guy blind folded and was orchestrating the whole thing, i listened to him fuck the guy a few times previous but this last time he told me he wanted to see " my hot little ass" pounding him. I fucked the guy it was pretty hot and felt REAL good, especially when my partnet couldnt take it any longer and pushed into me as i was inside the guy. each time he shoved into me it pushed me deeper into the 3 rd guy. almost like he was fucking the guy with my dick, i wasnt able to hold back my partenr forced me to cum by shoving me into the guy it was AMAZING! as i was blowing mine i felt him shoot in me.. hopefully we do that again soon. But i never know until i get a text from my partner to meet him somewhere. and usually its a hotel room i walk in see him on the bed getting sucked by a guy in a blindfold, he gets up, has me take a shower and come out with the blind fold on. its HOT
 

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Started out top just for the fact that any pentration was physically uncomfortable. I tried to finger my prostate but couldn't get into it. At the time, also prefered to get oral rather than receive. After a few experiences with guys and I became more comfortable, I wanted to explore more. With my first reg bud, I totally got into sucking cock. With my second reg bud, he was def more dom and preferred to be serviced . . . so with him I became more sub. Eventually he wanted me to btm for him. I reluctantly tried it and enjoyed it . . . not the physical sensation (which I'm still working on) but the whole being sub thing. It's hot as hell for me knowing the top is getting off and being the focus of his pleasure and emotions. If it wasn't for the chemistry between me and him, I'd never have gotten that far. I want to continue to btm in my new town, but haven't found anyone that I've truly clicked with.
 

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These tips have been giving me some advices on me deciding what to be...

I always thought before (and yes, it's dumb), that tops are usually the ones with big dicks...lol
 

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I'm bi. Prefer girls but enjoy the ease of MM sex.

With guys, I'm vers but lean top. Especially if it's a casual hook-up. Then I just want to get my rocks off a few times. If the guy becomes a regular, I'll give head and occasionally let him fuck me. But anal bottoming is never as much fun as its reputation would have it. I'm always disappointed -- "that's what everyone's raving about?"

I've noticed that with casual sex (both boy and girl), if my partner is not that attractive, I'm exclusively a top. I don't like using my mouth on the genitals of people with less than hot bodies. But they can suck me and I'll fuck them.

I'm also well-hung. As has been mentioned on these boards, if you're well-hung, you need to point a gun at your partner's head before he'll let you bottom. So in my case, my preference for topping works out well for all concerned.
 
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Versatile. I used to lean more bottom, but in the past year or so, I've really wanted to top more. Maybe it's because most of the tops I've met aren't that good, but I remember topping for the first time in a while in November, and thinking "Why have I not done this more?" Now it's just a matter of finding guys who want to bottom. That kind of luck is hard.
 

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Im only liking being bottom if i can feel my guy shooting his load in me. For me thats the hottest thing ever!!