I’m curious how long term relationships work sexually. Do you both take turns being the bottom or is one usually the bottom? I feel silly asking but I’m curious. Thanks
Haha no I get it. I know it’s not a straight forward answer. But I do wonder how a bottom/ bottom or a top/top relationship worksnot a silly question at all. the answer is not at all straightforward though. Depends totally on the two people involved. They can be top/bottom, vers/vers, bottom/bottom, top/top, vers/top etc etc so its about what roles they had when they met and how they've developed in their relationship. some guys stay in their respective 'role' they were when they met - thats how it's been for me and my bf. Some guys change roles or experiment. Some relationships open up to others. For some sex declines and it becomes a friendship relationship. For some sex activity increases.
I'd also generalise and say that in a long term relationship as feelings, trust, communication etc develop the intensity of sex, the intimacy, the closeness with each other increases loads and that can be just as fulfilling as how the sex develops.
so thats probably just confused you more lol.
Nice. Do you change during position during the fuck, or does someone exclusively top or bottom during the session?When I got together with my boyfriend, I was only top and he was only bottom. But over time I felt like feeling his fat cock in my ass. Meanwhile we are both vers and take turns
You can but its not satisfactory, once a cock begins to penetrate and slide it to its full depth and starts to fuck the body on the fucker and fuckkee accept that position and need it to continue to climax.Nice. Do you change during position during the fuck, or does someone exclusively top or bottom during the session?
Spot on mate, you want to know your delicious cock is enjoyed orally as well as an anal filling device, Nothing more boring than knowing you gotta be fucked or gotta fuck when the mood might want it the other way round. And I'd be happy to get plugged by you any time.For me, one being exclusive top or exclusively bottom would get boring quickly. Love going to bed not knowing what to expect....occasionally we all know what we want on the way there, but love just having it go where it goes!
Spot on mate, you want to know your delicious cock is enjoyed orally as well as an anal filling device, Nothing more boring than knowing you gotta be fucked or gotta fuck when the mood might want it the other way round. And I'd be happy to get plugged by you any time.
nothing I'd enjoy more than n ot knowing what was going to end up where - though I'd guess it would all cum out!Thanks Chris! Come visit sometime!
not a silly question at all. the answer is not at all straightforward though. Depends totally on the two people involved. They can be top/bottom, vers/vers, bottom/bottom, top/top, vers/top etc etc so its about what roles they had when they met and how they've developed in their relationship. some guys stay in their respective 'role' they were when they met - thats how it's been for me and my bf. Some guys change roles or experiment. Some relationships open up to others. For some sex declines and it becomes a friendship relationship. For some sex activity increases.
I'd also generalise and say that in a long term relationship as feelings, trust, communication etc develop the intensity of sex, the intimacy, the closeness with each other increases loads and that can be just as fulfilling as how the sex develops.
so thats probably just confused you more lol.
Thanks Chris!Spot on mate, you want to know your delicious cock is enjoyed orally as well as an anal filling device, Nothing more boring than knowing you gotta be fucked or gotta fuck when the mood might want it the other way round. And I'd be happy to get plugged by you any time.
In a long term relationship its probably hard to generalise. Speaking from experience in relationships it usually worked out to be based on the the position I found myself. So in one relationship I was bottom 90% of the time but still felt the urge to climb on top and reciprocate., enjoyed by both parties. My longest relationship I was top 99% of the time as he hardily ever wanted to top me, which worked well as we knew where we were and were comfortable with this, and, when I was upended and mounted an unexpected thrill for us both..I’m curious how long term relationships work sexually. Do you both take turns being the bottom or is one usually the bottom? I feel silly asking but I’m curious. Thanks