Top Privilege?

Beanie

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jan 27, 2007
Posts
4,465
Media
18
Likes
9,819
Points
493
Location
Cardiff (Wales)
Verification
View
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
ive searched already, and probably not well enough as someone is bound to tell me.

I want to discuss “top privilege” as the title suggests. I do wonder if it is indeed a thing and if it is relating to you; what does it mean?

I see frequently In porn that the top always gets to climax, however the bottom, being the receptive partner, gets no such release. Is this an oversight I’m exaggerating or a trend??
 

UncutViking

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
May 10, 2004
Posts
1,273
Media
157
Likes
21,350
Points
618
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
As a polite top I want to service my bottom, making him enjoy the fucking as much as possible.
I take it as a huge compliment if he cums while I'm inside him. I'd be perfectly happy if he jacks me off after I pull out.
 

ohiorod

Mythical Member
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Jun 12, 2014
Posts
5,582
Media
0
Likes
25,573
Points
483
Location
West Virginia (United States)
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
I think the situations that the OP referred to are more prevalent in porn. But, I would guess that it may happen in one night stands, where someone just wants to get off and could care less about the sex partner.

Since I am a bit more relationship prone, I am always concerned with the pleasure of my bottom, my significant other. I don’t recall any times that we have engaged in sex where both of us were not satisfied and each had ejaculated. The circumstances vary since we mix it up sometimes, but mutual pleasure is a common denominator.
 
  • Like
Reactions: alcor972

HOU_HEADHUNTER

Superior Member
Joined
Jan 22, 2017
Posts
1,768
Media
0
Likes
8,089
Points
233
Location
Houston, Texas, United States of America
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
I don't often cum when I bottom and it's not a requirement because I like to think of myself as a pleaser. I get pleasure from them climaxing and it serves as my goal when I'm intimate with someone. If I don't cum in the moment of passion I will cum much later when I am replaying the scenes of our session in my head.
 

muskokan

Admired Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Oct 31, 2013
Posts
426
Media
5
Likes
890
Points
238
Location
Canada
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
i only bottom and will always spread my legs for a good top. It is not imperative for me to cum but i do not think of there being a privilege for the top to make me either.
As @Brodie888 says "As a bottom, I don't really care if I cum or not during sex. It usually happens but it doesn't bother me if it doesn't." that for me is all that matters
 
  • Like
Reactions: Bittydrew

D_odif

Legendary Member
Joined
Jun 10, 2019
Posts
478
Media
0
Likes
1,015
Points
103
Location
NYC (New York, United States)
Sexuality
No Response
if the top is hung he is going to make me cum hands free and early on. Which is fine, I can usually pop two more times during the event. Unless the top cums quickly. General I don’t mind if he cums before me, seeing a top blow his load first is what gets me going.