TOP to BOTTOM...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by thk8plus4u, Apr 27, 2006.

  1. thk8plus4u

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    I've been very lucky in my life to "get what i want" --
    meaning, having a guy with a dick bigger than mine
    bottom for me.

    It sort of feels like some kind of 'power' I have over
    well-hung dudes... Guys that are bigger than me (and
    I've got a healthy 8.5 x 6.5) look at my dick, and they
    want to go 'bottoms up' for me... Completely fulfilling
    my strongest desire, to top a TOP.

    So my question to the gang is, how many of you guys,
    known to be tops, are willing to bottom for 'that certain
    cock' ?

    It's a total turn-on for me, every time it happens.:wink:
     
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    *raises hand*

    It's really about the person and our chemistry, not his cock.

    I will bottom for the man who deserves it.

    My ass is not given lightly.
     
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    I totally agree with Lex. But I also recognise your feelings. It's awesome to top a big dicked guy.
     
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    It's a porn thing: the guy with the bigger cock "should" be the top. Kinda crazy, huh? Big dick = top; small dick = bottom. Thankfully, life doesn't always work out that way.

    But I know that it's a turn-on for some guys to find a big-dicked bottom. So, I like to give it up from time to time -- but bending me over depends much more on the guy than what he's packing.
     
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    I'm mostly a bttm, but tend to be more toppish when i'm in a relationship. at some point emotions come into play. for example, I always used to want to top when I was angry at my boyfriend for something. :)
     
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    2 of the 3 guys I dated with dicks bigger than mine were bottoms. Size never entered into the equation with me about top/bottom. Chemistry and mood. If the demanded my ass, they didn't get it (unless they did the demanding in a hot way). I had one relationship where it seemed my legs were always in the air and my cock was a lot bigger than his. He was an amazing top. Whew.
     
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    Yes, totally i agree whit you. According to me, i find exciting to be the bottom for a guy smaller than me. I think it's something due to a psicological reason, where the bottom (or wanna be bottom) feels his manhood denied by the being the bottom of a top whit a dick smaller than his. Not allways, but is common for a bottom to like to be humiliated, at least on the inner of itself, feeling himself the number 2 about manhood after the top, who is the true stud on that moment. :biggrin1: I am more than 7,5" and so it's easy for me to find tops who are bigger than me, and they like to show me who is the real cock on the couple, despite the inches on less. However, to be the bottom of a guy really more endowed than me is a great turn on too. :cool:
     
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    I have a relationship with a big-dicked guy. I love getting fucked by him. But I also like to fuck. He frequently asks me to fuck him - its all good. I'm bigger than average (7x5.5). One time after we made love, he turned to me and said how much he enjoyed my big cock. Now he's got at least 2 inches on me and some girth.

    Slowly I realized, big dicks are rare (everywhere but on LPSG). Most are average, many are smaller. Even if he's got a bigger dick, I'm the largest he's had fuck him. Combine that with lots of love and who care's who's bigger.
     
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    I guess I should say up front that when it comes to my bi /gay side I am only excited and interested in hung guys; so with that being said, obviously my partner is always the bigger of us, just 5.5 here. And I do certainly enjoy being the top, I guess its because I just enjoy being able to see and stroke it during play. Not realy a matter of superiority for me, or maybe its large penis envy.
     
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    Yeah, i think that the penis envy means much on this dynamics. For the top, it's a way to show is being the real male on the couple although having a smaller dick.
     
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    What?

    Being on bottom does not make someone less of a man.

    The entire paradigm that holds tops as being more manly and masculine than bottoms is just BS. Sorry.

    I am as masculine as I am irrespective of whether I am fucking or being fucked.
     
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    Yes, i know what do you mean and i agree whit you about it. Of course is "BS", but... I don't know how is there, but here on Italy this is the dominant thought.
     
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    And do you believe that "dominant thought" to be true and valid? Your post seemed to resonate your personal belief that tops are more manly than bottoms.

    Nothing could be further from the truth. Both are equals. Without each other, each would have to relegate themselves to masturbation or forced sex with women.

    Group think is bad.
     
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    Im speechless, well maybe not. Having a smaller penis certainly does not make me or I hope anyone else feel like less of a male. However others can seem to think of those with a smaller penis as less, but thats a whole other debate; probably a good one for gay.com.
     
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    I have a friend who's just under 8.5 real inches. Typically, he's top-ONLY, but on those rare occasions when he finds someone bigger, he can't get his feet in the air fast enough.
     
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    Novice, that is really cool. He saounds hot.

    Now can I please fuck that beautiful ass of yours?
     
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    Aww, you say the sweetest things to me. :tongue: Well, you DID ask nicely, so I guess I can't really say, "no" now, can I? :wink:
     
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    i feel glad to be out of this...must be a gay guy thing
     
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    And straight boys that love when their girlfriends wear strap-ons. :tongue:
     
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    Of course i agree whit you, because i recognize the stupidity of the "dominat thought". But the stupid thoughts are frequents where doesn't exist cultural opening and tolerance, for example on the latin countries (where the "machismo" is more frequent than on the northern countries, of Europe and Usa). Here really many peoples, both women and men, thinks this. Obviously these are bad thoughts, but i only say you thath these exists, not that i appreciated them (otherwhise i would be crazy).
     
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