ok, so my question for guys topping an ass is: so you prefer to fuck an ass that is very relaxed and loose or one that is more tensed up and tight? I myself perfer to fuck an ass that is tensed and spasming while a guy is hard and jacking off. But I recently was bottoming for a guy who said I was too tight and asked me to not play with my cock and make my hole tense up. I tried to just totally relax and really concentrate on letting my asshole really get loose, but it wasn't as much fun for me. So which do you prefer?