topping a hot ass

[Goose_Eggs]

ok, so my question for guys topping an ass is:
so you prefer to fuck an ass that is very relaxed and loose or one that is more tensed up and tight?

I myself perfer to fuck an ass that is tensed and spasming while a guy is hard and jacking off. But I recently was bottoming for a guy who said I was too tight and asked me to not play with my cock and make my hole tense up. I tried to just totally relax and really concentrate on letting my asshole really get loose, but it wasn't as much fun for me.

So which do you prefer?

 

[novice_btm]

I'm bumping this, because I'm curious too. I've been told I'm tight no matter what, but "open" after a few. I understand how it wasn't so fun for you in this particular case, especially having to think about it so much, when you should've just been enjoying yourself. Nonetheless, contrary to what some think, just because a bottom is limp, doesn't mean he's not totally enjoying himself.

 

[ben_big_willy]

I agree with you, Novice_Btm. So much of sex for me is mental. I frequently am not hard when I am getting fucked, but it doesn't mean I am not totally turned on and enjoying myself.

 

[guynmn]

I don't really like a super tight bottom holding my cock in a death grip. One dude did that and hurt me. Now I kind of shy away, if you tell me your real tight I'm not interested until you loosen up. Might mean going slow with a lot of foreplay. Now, short term tight like if your getting ready to cum is different I Just slow down...but if you never loosen up I will go soft because I'm getting worried I'll get cock sheer again.

 

[novice_btm]

Yeah, I've had both reactions.
1) "Too hot... so tight... gonna cum!!!" - :biggrin:
and
2) "Unnrrg! Need a break, gotta loosen you up more." - :frown:

 

[Bbucko]

Tight hole sucks. I like 'em as open and wet as I can get 'em.

About four years ago I met a guy online whose ass was so tight that it took almost 30 minutes before I could actually go balls-deep. If he hadn't met all of my criteria and preferences so perfectly I woudn't have really gone to the bother. I could literally feel his ass on my dick the next day: weird.

 

[mute_posting]

I find really tight a bit of a turn off. Too tight I can't get it in so I loose some stiffness which makes it even harder to penetrate.

Give me a ass that can relax easily any day

 

[Lex]

Loose is better. When I guy is tight, I get worried that I might hurt him. I like when a guy jacks while being fucked (And I certainly like to do it as well), but I also understand that many men can't get hard while being fucked.

 

[ashlar]

I prefer somewhere in the middle myself.

 

[jd0198]

I like being a badass dom top and fucking a bottom through his squeeze and cum. He has to open up so i can get in and slide/massage his hole and when he begins to grip or close to cum i like to just fuck that grip right out of him

 

[YoungHungMachine]

I dont relax during, like it when im tight and being split apart the whole time.