- sfu,
So I haven't had ton of sex, topped maybe a dozen times. The first two times I did it bare (I know, knew and trusted the guy but still bad), but every time after that I've been safe. Last week I had sex again for the first time in almost a year. The guy was pretty hot, we were pretty into each other. He asked me if I liked his tight and warm hole. Honestly I wanted to say...didn't really feel much. I'm 7.5x5.5 so it's not like I'm a pencil fucking a donut, but the sensations themselves didn't feel that intense, it was more the actions that got me excited more than anything. I do remember feeling A LOT more the couple times I did it without a condom. How do you guys cope? There's no way I'd ever consider topping without a condom anymore unless I'm in a very serious relationship which is probably not happening anytime soon. I really want to enjoy sex more but I'm kinda just meh about it.