tops and bottoms?

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  1. Kassokilleri2ff

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    Im not gay, but ive been reading some of the posts, and the gay guys are always saying somthing about being a top or a bottom, i just want to know wtf it means lol.
     
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    Tops do the penetrating - you figure out the rest.
     
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    :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
    Don't feel bad my southern Tx brotha...
    I had the same question for a fellow (newbie intro) that said he was a bottom:confused:
    I figured it out:eek: :rolleyes: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
    But, I'm really slow... and behind the times. I didn't know what camming or cam meant or photo shopping:confused: ( I thought it was some place where you buy camera equipment):confused: :biggrin1: :biggrin1: :biggrin1:
    I felt so stupid when I found out.Learn something new everyday!:wink:
    Oh hell, Enjoy anyway
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    lol ic ic. camera shopping kekeke. so there are like, gay guys who are the girls (bottoms) and gay guys who are the guys? (tops)
    does that mean that if your a bottom, you dont like to top and vice versa?
     
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    U got!:biggrin1: :wink:
    The only way I'm on the bottom is when somebody sitting on my lap:biggrin1: :biggrin1: :cool:
     
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    Of course, many gays (and bi's) are versatile, but have a leaning toward one or the other activity. And some, like myself, may prefer other things (see my screenname), though I tend to bottom if it comes up (pun?). So labels like top and bottom are as ambiguous as straight and gay.
     
  7. agnslz

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    Is it really that hard to figure out?
     
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    I had someone once tell me that I'm a sub but not a bottom. Whatever that means. :p
     
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    I recommend the movie, Another Gay Movie, which deals with this issue very amusingly...:jester:
     
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    Surely you jest, crescendo69.

    LPSG is the only place on the planet where straight males are ambiguous. :biggrin1: Every place else they just admit to being bi or gay when they can't live a complete life without sucking a cock or more. :smile:

    Sorry, but I really felt that statement needed clarification.
     
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    Some us are actually VERSATILE, which means we like to fuck and be fucked. I started as a total top and have since found out what I was missing.

    Here is an article that may be worth a read. Speaks on how limiting these two exclusive labels are.


    Here is another on how the bottom is really in control.

     
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    Top vs. Bottom for me is more about ATTITUDE
     
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    What does that mean? :confused:
     
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    My master told me that...soo....lol I guess he would know. I like to be dominated, but I like to control the domination.

    I guess it's like that whole...Say I wanna buy a vacuum but I know my husband (I'm not married) wont go for it. So I try to make it so he thinks it's his idea to buy a new one.

    That's........being a sub but not a bottom. ;) lol
     
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    Oh! Now I get it. In the gay community thats called being a power bottom or an aggressive bottom.


     
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    first off, no one is "the girl." in gay relationships, we're both dudes (unless he's like, a drag queen. i don't see anything wrong with drag queens, but like, i don't find them sexually attractive. if i wanted to be with a girl, i'd go out and get a girlfriend). i'm not like, angry at you, but i hate it when people are like "oh, so who's the girl?"

    as for the rest of yer post, as said earlier, a lot of gay dudes are versatile, such as myself. but there are some guys that will only top, or only bottom.


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    uhm, no, that's not it. it has to do with dominatrix and things like that (the word like, totally escapes me lol) she had said that her master told her that. "sub" means "submissive"
     
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    Not just a gay thing. I have a butch straight friend that likes to bottom. He fianlly sees this as a position of control in the times he takes it on with his wife. I love him for that too.
     
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    Now I'm the dumb one, Cube. Do you mean your straight friend lies on the bottom but still does the penetrating with his wife?
     
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    good question...maybe his wife has a strap on? i actually know more straight guys that like anal play (being fingered and penetrated) than gay dudes
     
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    No. Bottoming means getting fucked. It means getting penetrated. If I lay on my back and you sit on my dick I am still topping you.
     
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