Tops do you care if your bottom cums?

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Just wondering if you top men care if you bottom cums or not? I ask because it's not needed for my satisfaction when I'm getting fucked.
Cool question. I actually really like to see my bottom cum. I love to see and hear all sorts of feedback from the effects I have on him, including quivers, moans, whimpers, gasps, screams, thrashing, exclamations, etc. I view him cumming as a form of feedback.
 

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Just wondering if you top men care if you bottom cums or not? I ask because it's not needed for my satisfaction when I'm getting fucked.
I love giving pleasure, as @bkmuscledad said, I love hearing the moans n sounds and I love seeing their body move shake just enjoying it, seeing them cum is great, I like to use the bottoms cum as extra lube too its great lol as long as they are happy I'm happy,
to be honest there are times where I'm happy for myself not physically cum but still have that bodily orgasm :) I hope all that made sense
 

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Cool question. I actually really like to see my bottom cum. I love to see and hear all sorts of feedback from the effects I have on him, including quivers, moans, whimpers, gasps, screams, thrashing, exclamations, etc. I view him cumming as a form of feedback.
I especially love knowing that I make my partner feel that good.
 

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as a bottom i always want to cum but never think it is my right. i always make sure that all the tops get off and give me a drink or two of their cum and if i am lucky then i am able/allowed to cum but it is not always a given that i do AND i always return!
 

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If my top puts in the work and gives me a pleasurable time he doesn't have to worry about me cumming because I am going to cum either while we are in the act or soon after when I recall it later. I try not to put anymore pressure on the top especially if he's cum and is coming down from the extreme high of his orgasm. He can rest up after that but if he wants to help me get off also he's welcome to but I don't make an issue of it if he doesn't.
 

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Cool question. I actually really like to see my bottom cum. I love to see and hear all sorts of feedback from the effects I have on him, including quivers, moans, whimpers, gasps, screams, thrashing, exclamations, etc. I view him cumming as a form of feedback.

I am very expressive while I'm getting fucked. I get total enjoyment from getting fucked, or other forms of ass play. If I cum that is great, however that is not what I need in order for me to leave smiling and totally satisfied. Perhaps it's my age and I know exactly what it take for me to be in heaven.... Would you feel like you did not do a good job if your bottom did not cum?
 

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Of course, isn't that the whole point? When I top, I want my bottoms to be satisfied, from start to finish. I usually don't orgasm inside, but love a great handjob at the end, after my bottom has climaxed.
Not necessarily true... I think that some guys such as your self, view sex as a way of getting off that the end goal is to cum. Might have something with your being a top. I get so much pleasure while getting fuck, that is all I need... I'm sure there are other bottom that feel the same way.
 

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Not necessarily true... I think that some guys such as your self, view sex as a way of getting off that the end goal is to cum. Might have something with your being a top. I get so much pleasure while getting fuck, that is all I need... I'm sure there are other bottom that feel the same way.
that is me!
 
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I am very expressive while I'm getting fucked. I get total enjoyment from getting fucked, or other forms of ass play. If I cum that is great, however that is not what I need in order for me to leave smiling and totally satisfied. Perhaps it's my age and I know exactly what it take for me to be in heaven.... Would you feel like you did not do a good job if your bottom did not cum?
That's a fair question. No I wouldn't. Everyone is unique in what makes them happy, and what makes them cum. I don't take it personally if a guy doesn't cum, and I've known a lot of guys who actually prefer not to, and if that's what makes them happy, then I'm happy, too. That being said, if a guy cums while being fucked, I take that as the ultimate compliment. :)
 

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. That being said, if a guy cums while being fucked, I take that as the ultimate compliment. :)

that's really my goal when I fuck a guy. My own climax is not a priority during intercourse.
I am proud that I have made almost all my bottoms orgasm while I have pounded them
 

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Great thread - I'm a bottom, so it's fascinating to get tops' perspective on this. I kind of feel bad sometimes, because I oftentimes don't cum-cum when I'm fucked (prostate orgasms are a different story), but its really more physiological than anything else - it just takes me a while to orgasm, largely because of the intensity of the pleasure I feel when I'm being fucked. But whether or not I cum has no bearing on whether I'm enjoying it, or getting off on it. I don't think any guy who's fucked me has ever gotten the impression I didn't love it, quite the opposite. I'd just hate to for a guy to think I didn't simply because I didn't shoot.

Mind you when I do it's goddamn off-the-charts LOL.