Tops, do you like your bottoms cumming?

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Just curious because some of guys I've slept with weren't interested in jacking me off for me to cum after they finished fucking me.

I just got back in the "dating game" and some of these guys just didn't jack me off or ask me if I wanted to cum.

Maybe times now are different? Maybe there's something wrong with my dick? lol But it's just weird.

I just end up going back home, taking a shower and busting a nut there.

I guess common sense is maybe I should ask them? I just end up convincing myself in the head that I'm doing them a favor not staining their sheets with how much I can cum. lol
 

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Been out of the "dating game" for a long time but that sounds just plain rude. Sometimes I wouldn't let bottoms touch themselves and make them blow a load just from my cock. But if they couldn't I'd always give them a hand job or watch them JO. And if you're having sex with another man your sheets are going to be messed up when you're done. Comes with the territory.

I checked out your album. Not seeing anything wrong with your cock. Or ass. Seeing plenty to like! :wink:
 
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Great, looks like been shacking up with the wrong guys. lol Thanks for the feedback everyone. And also for the compliments. :p

Also, if they don't bring it up, should I even ask? That sounds like it just defeats the purpose altogether.
 

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I am almost 100% top and I LOVE making the bottom cum - it's more important to me than cumming myself. That said, I am a true control freak and I like to make sure he cums when *I* want him to. I will fuck him hard, deep, drive him to the brink of ecstasy, all the while just teasing his cock, but as soon as I get close to cumming, I'll slow right down and edge my own cock by very gently massaging his insides with it while I work his cock with my hands - the aim is to get him to the brink and then both cum explosively together.

The bottom has to cum - no question. It's my duty as a top to make sure it happens and he LOVES every second.
 

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Most tops I've been with worry about me cumming at least once. There were 2 or 3 jerks that didn't care at all.

The best ones have made me cum 2 or 3 times before they came themselves. They often say it feels great when I cum while they're inside, like it gets tighter for the dick. I wonder if any other tops here have felt that.
 
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BTW, justbryan, you're really attractive, and u seem like a nice guy... u deserve to be given multiple orgasms by anyone who gets intimate with u. :wink:
 

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Agree with the others---the guys you have been with are selfish jerks, and don't deserve the experience you shared with them. In my personal experience, 19 out of 20 times, the guys I have topped have cum before I have. The 1 out of 20 when I cum first, I definately keep going until my partner cums :) To quote a friend of mine who was used like this once, when the guy who had done him asked about repeat sex, my friend stated "We didn't have sex---you masturbated in my body". I think that pretty much describes it. Sex is or should be about giving and taking pleasure from each other, sharing an intimate fun and pleasureable experience. To quote Robet Heinlein" Sex should be fun--otherwise, stick to mechanical toys. It's more sanitary".
 

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and your in NY? I mean like the guys I've met actually urge me to jerk off while they fuck me. i can't do it cause i go soft and once their done I'm kind of just not in the mood but maybe its the guys your meeting cause I've never had that problem except once and he was from NJ. lol
 

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My bottom ALWAYS gets off before I do. Otherwise I know I'm not doing my job right.

And that's exactly how a real top do it. I AlWAYS make my bottom cum before me because it means that my job as top is done. Then I cum.

I feel it's a bit rude to just get your way and leave the bottom to pleasure himself, it should be fun for both of us. I didn't see your face but your body looks really cute and sexy. You got some good curves and shape, that's how I like my bottom... A real shame those guys didn't do you any justice.
 

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Damn, I didn't know what to expect but I didn't expect a unanimous vote. lol

Thanks for all the replies, now I feel used. lol But I guess I need to better prioritize this whole sex-with-almost-strangers thing.