Tops like bottoms to look girlish?

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    Seems to me that in gay porn the clips that get most comments feature slim, hairless youngsters. Do the gay top guys here go for slim, hairless, small waisted, young and girlish boys? Or, let me put it another way. When you fantasize a sex partner, what body type do you desire most?
    This should be a poll maybe.
    Guess I'll have to figure out all the major male groups by body-type.
     
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    :pat:mine is pretty obvious!
     
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    I like bottoms of all body types, ages, races, etc. If you're hot and you like getting fucked I like you.
     
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    Not interested in young and girlish boys at all. My ideal would be husky with a hairy chest.
     
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    I'm bi, and what I am looking for in a partner is pretty traditional. I like my ladies to be smallish and cute. I like my buddies to be blue collar and no-nonsense.

    One of my favorite bottoms of all time was a Georgia truck driver. Ex marine, ex land surveyor. Little guy, crackerish, hairy, dirt under the nails type.

    Once he came to grips that cock was fun, I tried to get him to bend over for me. I soon realized that he had NO CONFIDENCE in his body image, he assumed I was looking for a smooth Tom Cruise type, and was reluctant to take all his closes off for sex.

    I ordered him to turn around, drop his pants, and bend over... which to my surprise he did.

    As he's bent over, I told him "When I fuck women I like them to have that perfect female ass: smooth and petit. You know what I am looking at? The perfect MALE ass. It's square built and hairy, and I go ape shit how your hairy nut sack hangs like a bull. I don't want to fuck a female today bud. I am here to fuck a man like you. A man's man turns me on."

    It worked like magic. What ever I wanted sexually I got, and I gave back to him in spades. In fact, what was supposed to be a one time pick up turned into several years of anal copulation. His wife had lost interest in sex ages ago, but me satisfying him helped keep them together till the children grew up and moved out.
     
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    Wow, SouthernSpunk. That was a clear statement of desire. Very hot, too.
     
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    THIS is what's called..Southern Hospitality :) ...way to go SouthernSpunk!
     
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    This is not an easy question to answer as I like all types. I prefer younger, slimmer, smooth guys but to Top a husky, hairy bear of a man is nice too. :cool:
     
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    I love a man to be just that, a man. I love short buzzed hair (or nice bald shave), facial hair, mustache, goatee and a nice amount of hair. It turns me on even more to see a man more built and fit than I am, bottoming. Fuck yeah. Suck my cock.
     
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    @ arrivaderciroma: Thanks bud. That trucker story is 100% true and very, very condensed. He was a construction supply delivery driver and I was in a house I was renovating. I got him to suck me off after the delivery (long story), but then he went on a guilt trip.

    Now I work construction and it's a small town, so I am seeing him in the store and he is running away regularly, and it took a lot of time for him to "realize" his feelings were ok.

    The dam broke when I was invited to a birthday party of one of the other store truckers. My bud shows up with his wife and he has a major freak attack, and acting like he don't know me.

    Only after watching me with the other guys and wives, and especially after seeing how I talked to his wife and he saw that everything was "normal", he came out of his panic. A few days later he knocks on my door, and good things happened.
     
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    Buddy, How'd you know what I was thinking?
     
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    Myself, I currently imagine athletic guys with hairy chests and thick dark pubes. When I was younger I mostly noticed boy types. Still do; but don't yet know how I'd handle guys bigger and tougher than me.
     
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    My cock can read minds ;)
     
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    Oh, wow!

    Could you ask your cock what stocks I should buy?

    Also, I want to have a nice Autumn picnic: When will it not rain next week?
     
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    IF I watch porn...I typically do not want to see the femme boys get fucked. Sounds like you should change the distributor of the porn you've been watching...go for something a bit more "grown up" (for a lack of a better term). Hot House, Raging Stallion, Colt, Mustang, Titan... Those typically have the more rugged lookin' beefy/muscle boys...


    **Lol Empathizer :)
     
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    I'm mostly a bottom, I don't have a lot of experience so I'm speaking from the point of view of a porn fan, I think it's like a hunter/prey thing, the big guy tops the little fragile boy, or at least the least confident, weaker looking guy and it's kinda hot, otherwise it's kinda weird, I don't know.

    In a way it's pretty basic, just like if we were irrational animals, the stronger animal would fuck the weaker one because he wouldn't be able to defend himself.

    In real life it's kinda different though, because it has to do with personality and the dynamic between the couple/sex partners.
     
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    I wonder then, if this is truly what the majority of gay men prefer to see in porn, why we don't see more of that in mainstream porn. Being a bottom (that tops WAY more than he should and still call himself a bottom) part of my body image issues comes from the porn I watch. It seems the younger, slimmer and smoother you are the more your face appears in "mainstream" porn. And I haven't been young slim and smooth since the day before my first pube sprouted.

    I realize this is just a small sampling of the gay community at large. But if it is indicative of the larger gay community, I still wonder why we don't see "like" types bottoming and topping. Meaning, less of the "Daddy vs boy" and more of the "Daddy vs Daddy". Or more appropriate, "Equal Against Equal Regardless of Body Type".

    Now as far as my own porn collection and what I watch online, I do tend to go for the "Equal Against Equal". But I have to dig for it online to find the "good stuff". And when I do find the "good stuff", it's not mainstream and it's certainly, from the outside looking in, doesn't seem like it's what the advertisers push and what ultimately "sells".
     
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    Yah I think you're right...HOWEVER, The bottom has all the power. Any top that thinks otherwise is HUGELY mistaken. Without the bottom...the top would just jerk off..lol I mostly top and can be pretty dominant..but I'm just as dominant if I'm bottoming. LOL Either way the person gets fucked. LOL I think bottoms should take more control and teach some of the "tops" what they REALLY want done to them and what feels good. Some guys have gotten by on having a big dick and NEVER learned how to use it. Wasteful if you ask me. :)
     
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    These two wise responses capture exactly how I think and respond to guys.

    As a non-versatile Dom top I've recognized for many years that the bottom holds all the trump cards. No matter how "dominant" you can want to be, you can only actually be as dominant as the bottom accepts. Otherwise it's not consensual. And everything I've learned sexually over the years has been taught to me by amazing, wonderful bottoms.

    I have no set racial or behavioral preferences, just some specific attributes that I find more attractive than others. I am really fond of a cushy, malleable ass set on a nice set of "child-bearing" hips; I tend to prefer darker features and I don't usually go after men much taller than, say, 5'10.

    But I've had mad, insane chemistry with guys of all different builds and ethnicities, so I keep as open a mind as possible to life's potentialities.

    Confidence is enormously sexy; nothing is less sexy to me than a bottom who feels so little confidence and security as a gay man that he feels compelled to affect an unnatural and highly-mannered "masculinity" at the expense of his lovely, natural self.
     
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