Tops Who Don’t Like Getting Head

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What are your thoughts on men who top and don’t like receiving head? It honestly blows my mind how there are men who are like that. Most of the excuses I’ve heard were:

“I am sensitive down there”

or

“It feels ticklish when they suck me”

Which are not valid excuses!

Then it’s more irritating when they want to suck you but they don’t let you suck them.


if you’re a top that doesn’t like getting sucked ( :emoji_rolling_eyes: ) can you tell us why?
 

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They're not sexually interesting to me but they have a right to their likes and dislikes.

People who don't like blowjobs are often confounded by people who like it. I encountered one guy on this site who claimed because some sex book didn't mention oral sex, that no one of that time period had it and it wasn't 'natural' that no one would suck dick if they hadn't heard about it first.

We don't need to act like that to guys who don't like getting sucked off. Personally I prefer it to other sex acts, some guys like other things.
 
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For me, oral sex doesn't sexually arouse me that much. I'm not a fan of giving and getting head doesn't stimulate me much. (I've never been able to get off from just a blow job). So it almost baffles me that people can get off from just oral sex. Though if the other person wants to give head, I let them go for it - it's not displeasing to get but it's not going to get me off.

Some people don't like the feeling of it. Don't be mad at them if they don't want to get sucked.
 

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I don't particularly like receiving head but I am more of a bottom (not that that should matter).

I have been with a few tops where I asked to suck them off first and they said no and didn't enjoy it. I really like giving head it really gets me in the mood so I do wish guys would say they don't like it first, but I have no issue with tops not liking head.
 
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I gotcha, and I understand how frustrating it can be when the other person isn't into the same thing as you/doesn't want to do something you really enjoy. I'm trying to think of ideas to help ya - Have you tried sucking on a dildo while the guy works on your butt?
 
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I think everybody is entitled to their own likes and dislikes. When I was right out of college, I knew a guy that never wanted his dick touched. He was always in town for a few weeks during the summer. And for a few years, he would come over suck me. One time, I finally got him to let me suck him, but he came within a few seconds of my tongue touching his dick. He was super sensitive and it took nothing to get him off. That is why he really disliked having his dick touched.

Now that I am older, I personally don't enjoy getting a blowjob because for me, it is all about taking care of the other guy's dick. I don't get any enjoyment from a guy taking care of my dick, but I get all pleasure from taking care of his. The biggest payoff for me is when he cums.
 
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And I should add that I did have a fuck buddy that was 100% top and all he ever wanted to do was suck my dick, rim my hole and fuck me. Each time I went over to his place, I would be on my back with my legs up in the air. He would be down there working my hole over with his fingers, tongue and dick. He would also suck my dick some, but it was all about my hole.

Sometimes he would let me suck his dick for a few minutes, but he got no enjoyment from that. Sometimes when I was sucking him, he would lose his erection. That is a big downer for me, made me feel like I wasn't doing a good job. But as soon as he was rimming my hole again, his dick would get fully hard again.

I went over to his place about 25 times in a 3 year period. I only saw him get off less than 5 times. For him, it was definitely all about getting me off.
 
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I can't say that I've ever come across any top that didn't want head. You're finding this to be the case in multiple encounters? Just curious as over the past four decades I don't think I never have... :confused: I'm know there were many that just got down to business so perhaps they were of that category and I just didn't know it. With that being said, I've never had any top that outright refused his dick being sucked. ;)
 
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