Total Freak in the bed question..do I stay and give it a shot or leave???

[Guy-jin]

You two are clearly not sexually compatible, dude, let alone emotionally. Get her out of your life.

 

[THEDUDER]

hahaha you are a pussy

 

[Guy-jin]

Oh yeah, before you break it off with her, you should punch her in the babymaker. It'll get her off.

 

[Bmh23]

lol wow..what constructive advice guys

 

[psidom]

punch her in the "babymaker"???? lol.
that sounded like a meth-toothed truckdriver.

 

[Principessa]

Bmh23,

Run far and fast this girl is trouble!
When engaged in BDSM safe words/signals are mandatory. Especially when doing the choking thing! This girl has dangerous written all over her.

If you confused fantasy and reality how do you think she felt with a lack of oxygen?

It's not my thing but it does seem to be, becoming more a part of mainstream or vanilla sex play. If you are that uncomfortable with it I would say don't do it . Explain to her that you aren't judging it's just you've not done that before and aren't comfortable with it.

IMHO, Honesty is always best when it comes to relationships and sex. Who knows you may change your mind and want to try it and if you don't like it you never have to do it again.