Total trust..have u experienced it?

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  1. OhWiseOne

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    Trusting your partner in a relationship, long term or short term. Have you trusted someone so much that you are willing to try anything? You both agree to it and there is no doubt no hesitation.

    An example, both of you are blindfolded. You can only use your other senses: smell, touch and hearing. You can't see what the other one is doing but you can't wait for what comes next. Both of you feel the reaction, excitement of the other and there is no need for sight, no fear of what might come next.

    Have you had an experience or want to?
     
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    Got It :smile:
     
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    There was this girl who trusted me enough to choke her without killing her
     
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    Nah...and not seeking it either.
     
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    Had it. Lost it.
     
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    I have it with my partner. He is a tad irresponsible with money but we are working on that!
     
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    Never truly, fully had it with anyone. Maybe that's why I have issues with intimacy... a bit of a cold fish. All goes back to mom and dad not offering demonstrative love when I was a kid. I make sure I show my son affection so he has a chance to grow up well-adjusted.
     
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    Got it, although he is too embarresed to tell me his ultimate fantasy. I already know it but he thinks it is too taboo to say out loud. I personally would tell him I am not into it, but I would not fault him for it. For me it is no holds barred.
     
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    When I was younger I don't recall ever having full blown trust with someone to go for anything and everything sexual with them. I'd love to trust someone to be blindfolded and freely explore or hands/legs tied and completely ravished. Or to finally try anal with that special someone. That's the ultimate trust.
     
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    i will never let my guard down and fully trust another person ... in general, human beings as a species are too shitty to be trusted =)
     
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    @ nudeyorker lol $$$ that's me in my relationship. As for trust it's lost n gained, waxed n waned. I trust my partner 100% even if I smell cinnamon gum/candy on his bush when we had sex once bc I didn't taste shit ; P . I told him a couple months later n got denial responses, but realized it was a one time for that time thing. We are human beings u know, n not perfect. N plus he realizes what he has, as I him ; )
     
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    yeppers. the ex-girlie and the boy. absolute trust, and absolute faith in them. is not just with sex, but every aspect of the relationship, and with my life. they are among the few people with both of my phone numbers (the super secret bat digits ain't easy to come by) full access to ML i guess :smile:

    all that acceptance and trust makes for some interesting naked time. :naughty:
    the boy has probably been the most open to experimentation and what not.
     
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    Good for you countryguy...enjoy
     
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    I would have to disagree. Yes it is true that you can't trust everyone but there is that one person u can. To find out you have to open up and test the waters. It can be a painful journey but a rewarding one in the end.
     
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    open relationship. we were both scared at first, we talk about it before we did it and we have an understanding that at any time if we feel that we are no longer compatible with each other we would come out and say it then we would part our way. That conversation took place over 15 years ago and we are on 25 years together.
     
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    @avartng (sp) totally awesome ; ) I've talked about it w my partner in the past year we have 7 1/2 years together
     
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    Great that it has worked out. But in most cases I beleive open relationships fail.
     
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    i fully trust a few close family members and a hand full or two of friends ... i would say of my friends about 2 of them are women but i am not attracted to them
     
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    I don't "totally" trust anything. People or otherwise.

    Things are just to prone to failure to have complete faith in.

    That doesn't mean I don't trust people with certain things, just not everything.
     
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    I have it now.

    Simba
     
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