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I can spend literally hours enjoying every different feeling and reaction to my tongue, fingers and cock,

Big D - you should read what is written rather than what you want to see.

I think women can have three dimensional orgasmic experiences whilst we men are two dimensional - some guys clearly treat a woman's experience of sex as the same as theirs. This is why I think they miss so much of the potential that women can offer. I am simply advocating that men forget about their own pleasure for a while and take the time to explore a woman's sexual potential.

I don't want to appear to be playing down the pleasure a woman can give me from the eroticism of a contour or stylized form to the tantalising precision of the most delicate touch. These things give me intense pleasure but i don't think that they match the range of not least orgasms that a woman can experience.

Wham bam is simple male sex and represses female sexual potential. I am just advocating aproaching sex from a non male perspective and i wonder whether this is real heterosexuality.
 

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Are these guys really heterosexual or am I a bit of a perv? Are they scared of pussy - what is going on?

They are selfish lovers who are only interested in their own good time. And yes probably scared or dont realise just how important oral and touch is.

My last ex (the virgin) was very curious and would go down on my for an hour or more. Alot of the time he wasnt doing anything but exploring, feeling, looking and tasting. At first it freaked me out a little in the sense of "what the hell are you doing down there?" but then i relaise he really is just a admirer of pussy and even though it made me self concious sometimes i was happy for him to do whatever he wanted.

He really was like a kid in a candy shop
 

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[Lord Pendragon] I am just a bit curious about what other guys are like, Ladies.

When I am with a woman who I want to be with, I am utterly fixated on her pussy, as well as the rest of her beautifull body. If you love cock, I love pussy twice as much. I can spend literally hours enjoying every different feeling and reaction to my tongue, fingers and cock, yet I hear that some men want just to stick their cocks in and hump away till they spill their seed. This is unfortunately true. Of the 12 men I have been with in my life, more than half were guilty of this.

Are these guys really heterosexual or am I a bit of a perv? They are in fact heterosexual. I don't think gay men have sex with women. :tongue: No, you are not a perv Lord Pendragon, you are my dream man. :wink: Are they scared of pussy - what is going on? Some men have no clue! The only thing they know about sex is what they overhear in locker rooms or see in porn videos.
 

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I have always appreciated anyone that can take pleasure in giving pleasure, as I take great enjoyment from doing so myself. This can take many forms and therefor you can always tell if someone is sincere in their desire to bring another pleasure because they actively seek affirmation. My fiance has always been an exceptional lover not because of his talent and desire to perform a specific act but because he dynamically searches out what will bring me the greatest happiness and joy (without sacriicing his own). This in turn causes me to take pleasure in his joy which amplifies the experience for us both. Conversely someone that acts based on preconceptions to serve themselves (or their partners) find themselves performing "chores". When a person does what they feel is neccessary to get what they want, the person on the recieving end can always sense it (even if only subconciously) and will not respond with the same enthusiasm. This applies to all forms of stimulation.

If you really enjoy eating pussy for the sake of your lover, you do it at the pleasure of your lover. I really enjoy when my fiance goes down on me and the pleasure I derive from the act is just as much from experiencing his enjoyment as it is from my own.

Brit
 

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i dunno if someone else wrote it already ... because i'm lazy.

but there's also the stigma of eating pussy in certain cultures.

the jamaicans and africans in new york hardly ever [admit to] eat pussy. they're either grossed out by it, or they think it makes them look weak. so foreplay ends up being relativcely non-existant.

and i remember a sopranos episode where uncle junior got a ton of flack because it became public knowledge that he ate pussy. that stigma seemed cultural ("old school," at least).

*shrugs shoulders*



In a word - laziness.

Years of experience has taught me that men who like spending time downtown love sex more than most. They take their time, immerse themselves in the moment, worshipping every part of a woman's body, and their passion knows no boundaries.

The two pumps and a squirt guy? He's not interested in anything but his own immature release and generally speaking doesn't spend much, if any time, in muffville.
 

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Years of experience has taught me that men who like spending time downtown love sex more than most. They take their time, immerse themselves in the moment, worshipping every part of a woman's body, and their passion knows no boundaries.

The two pumps and a squirt guy? He's not interested in anything but his own immature release and generally speaking doesn't spend much, if any time, in muffville.

A bump and a belated QFT.
 
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I am just a bit curious about what other guys are like, Ladies.

When I am with a woman who I want to be with, I am utterly fixated on her pussy, as well as the rest of her beautifull body. If you love cock, I love pussy twice as much. I can spend literally hours enjoying every different feeling and reaction to my tongue, fingers and cock, yet I hear that some men want just to stick their cocks in and hump away till they spill their seed.

Are these guys really heterosexual or am I a bit of a perv? Are they scared of pussy - what is going on?

You're pussy whipped Bro. Keep in mind that not everyone wants to eat or smell a stanky ass fishy pussy or wants a pussy that's got nasty beef curtains on it like most of the whorish size queens here have on their cunts.