Touched by strangers

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This migthy be a touchy subject... so to speak. I understand how some get offended when having their body spwcifically touches or grabbed by strangers in public settings.

I get how it can feel like a violation of ones personal space. However, Ive always found it to be huge turn on. I cant count how many times due to my size a individual male and female have given it a squeeze or grab.

I dont usually capitize on it but end of thinking about it the rest of the night. Do I need therapy, lol?
 

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This migthy be a touchy subject... so to speak. I understand how some get offended when having their body spwcifically touches or grabbed by strangers in public settings.

I get how it can feel like a violation of ones personal space. However, Ive always found it to be huge turn on. I cant count how many times due to my size a individual male and female have given it a squeeze or grab.

I dont usually capitize on it but end of thinking about it the rest of the night. Do I need therapy, lol?
I'd grab it lol
 

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I once had a friend, who while looking at my crotch asked "Don't people grab at that?" I answered yes, sometimes. I've usually been flattered, although it depends on the circumstances. But I love seeing someone wrestling with the temptation, then finally giving in. But what I really used to love was not the crotch grab, but when someone would start petting my shoulders. My fur is starting to thin out in my old age (and I think I don't grow my winter coat anymore because of the warm California climate), but at some times of year the hair on my shoulders would tickle my ear lobes. I loved to wear tank tops or other sleeveless shirts. Some people think body fur is gross, but often on line at the cashier or whatever, someone behind me (usually women) would succumb to temptation and start petting my shoulders. Some asked first, some just helped themselves.
 
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You don't need therapy as long as you know what your boundaries are.

Mine? Depends. I was in a gay club (more than once long ago) on the dance floor and the crowd was dirty dancing caressing, grabbing junk, squeezing ass and slithering all over each other in a pulsing mass. I expected it same as I expected getting grabbed by women at bars. I wouldn't be there if I didn't want to risk it might happen. In fact I knew it would which is why I participated. If it got too crazy or I didn't like it or the person(s) grabbing me I left the floor and sometimes the club.

In crowded elevators at work long ago a woman who worked upstairs in legal copped feels from behind or side by side. Yeah her office covered Human Resources lol. Women in elevators at the hotel where I worked in college would occasionally cop a feel, have a squeeze or just rest a hand. A friend of a friend of a friend I had just met ran her hand up my thigh and cupped my junk while I was driving her home when she needed a lift. A woman catering a wedding copped a feel just outside the kitchen pantry.

Body swipes have been much more common but fit this same rule:

It feels like a violation when I'm not attracted to the violator or if contact isn't discreet.

Another question is who is a stranger? How well do I have to know someone? I mean you think you know someone... :eyes:
 

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I was in the shower at my gym once. Suddenly a man com in to the shower room. He just came over and took a good grip at my penis and loooked/examined it. I have e big piercing, PA, and may be it was the piercing that caught his interest. I was too suprised to say anything.
 

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I'd say a lot of it is down to your mood, the setting and who's doing the grabbing.

I've been groped three times that I can think of. The first was when I was in my early 20s. A woman kept grabbing my crotch and saying she wanted me to fuck her. She wouldn't listen when I told her to stop. I eventually left.

The second was on a busy Tube in London early one morning when a very handsome man kept bumping into me and eventually just started stroking the back of his hand up and down the front of my jeans. He then turned and pressed his butt against me so that my cock was in his crack and started rubbing up and down. He reached back and popped a couple of buttons on my fly and slid his hand in. Fortunatly, I had to get off at the next stop or I would have, literally.

The third was a drunk older guy in a bar who was basically harassing anyone he thought was attractive and kept groping me and my friends. We didn't want to cause a scene and moved away, but he followed so we left.

For me, the second experience was much more fun than the first and third, but I'd say if it had been someone I wasn't attracted to I wouldn't have enjoyed it any more than the other two.
 
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